I agree, it's the same way here. Spark is the only administrator and he isn't going to hand it over to just any of us. It would take a lot to make that happen and this is his baby and he has gotten it to where it is today. I respect his decision to keep more control over the place to himself. I do really wish that we could do more to help him to make this place even better, I know we could really kick it up a level or two if we tried. I'm sorry all the frustration that this has caused you. I value my reputation as well (despite being a supermod), I started out buying more than selling and it ended up that way. I make sure if I commit to a deal I honor it, no matter what. If I miss out on something that I wanted because something came up and I was too slow to pay up, I understand and would issue an apology.
I've been very lucky. I have had 3 different members hold items for me while I got the money together. They were under no obligation to do it either. But I honored my commitment. That is all we have on the forum, our word. In the end, tarnishing someone;s reputation for a misunderstanding is unwarranted, and can be resolved by calm communication and having clear and understood sales terms. When people allow for too much flexibility people get butthurt and silly things ensue. I always try to stick to my sales terms, and I make things clear from the beginning so no misunderstandings can happen. CYA all the way!