Slim Buck 110/112: I like that they're US-made and favorably priced, but they just don't look elegant to me.
Not pressing the issue. Just making sure we're talking about the same knife. Here's a (stolen) image.

If that's not elegant enough and the risk of telling another man what kind of whiskey he should prefer... IMO, real elegance is better found in traditional patterns that lack pocket clips and thumb studs. Single bladed lock backs with blades in the 3" category carry surprisingly well loose in a front pocket, IMO.
My "gentleman folder" is a Buck 500. This is another stolen image. Mine is older and has maroon micarta scales.

I find traditionals in this size range big enough for many food tasks, have a big enough grip for reasonably hard work (not as good a full sized folder like the 110), and pretty/non-threatening enough to be deployed in nearly any social setting. Using a traditional 2 handed open and close is a big part of the gentlemanly polite open/close.
This said, lock backs of this sort can be one-hand opened and closed if you learn and practice the trick. Good skill to have.