as someone who has been described as a 'complete and total attention whore' I feel I might be qualified to speak to this issue

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Yes, you are vain. Unless you want to live in a cave and become one with, well...whatever, then you'll be living in a society and carving out your own niche. It's all well and good to get feedback, but I have seen, very often, people take anything less than a pat on the back as a personal affront. Those people are the most vain, and perhaps I am one of them.
But here's the way I see it; this internet universe relies on interaction in order to survive. It is truly egalitarian in that anyone can post anything, (whether it gets removed due to being inappropriate is a whole other thing) and this universe relies on it being reborn every nanosecond with new angles, ideas and generally, NEW CONTENT. If it's your vanity that causes you to be involved in this evolution, then great! Keep contributing, you're helping it to evolve!
So, you're vain. So what? You are helping to perpetuate a universe, while some sit by and simply soak it all in without providing nourishment themselves. I'd rather be described as vain, than to be described unproductive. And that's if I cared how I was described- maybe I'm too vain to care. I've always thought that other people's opinions of me are not really any of my business anyway. As long as I'm not hurting anyone, I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing, and I hope you do too. Whether you are compelled by righteousness or vanity, (or a combination of the two

) doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things, as long as you're an active participant, it's all good:thumbup: