I think forming and removing the burr are essential for forming a sharp edge. Knifenut is very experienced and lets say "advanced" in his ability to *almost* form a burr, and get the edge very sharp. I think this takes much experience, so those that are more like me need to form the burr to be sure that the grinding has "reached the edge". Otherwise, how will you ever know when you reach the edge?
So how do you tell if you have a burr? You've seen the suggestion for using the fingernail with a stropping motion. That works, but isn't my favorite. My favorite way is simple:
Hold the knife with the blade edge on top, spine parallel to the floor. Run your thumb perpendicular to the blade to feel for sharpness. Most people have done this many times and should know what I'm describing. DO NOT move parallel to the blade. We're not trying to cut ourselves!
Next, flip the blade around so the blade edge is still up, but the handle is pointing the opposite direction. If the handle was facing you in the previous step, it should now be facing away. Again, feel for sharpness. Did it feel sharper one way than the other? If not, you have no burr.
If it *did* you've found your burr. It's on the side that your thumb strokes *away* from, when feeling for sharpness.
In summary, "If it feels sharper one direction than the other, the burr is on the side that feels sharper."
I think it's important to raise a burr on both sides of the blade, and then eliminate it from the second side, leaving you with no burr on either side. Eliminating it usually just requires 2 to 5 strokes on the side with the burr. Keep checking after every stroke or two. Make sure you don't push the burr back to the other side. If you do, eliminate the burr from that side. Keep going until there's no burr.
I was very surprised to find that I can form a somewhat hair shaving edge with the coarsest stone I have: A medium SiC, which is quite coarse at ~150 grit. The "secret" is forming the burr on both sides so that you know you've reached the edge.
From there it's a matter of polishing the edge with finer stones, again forming a burr on both sides with each finer stone. The burr will get harder and harder to feel, but it's not too bad.
Finally, the OP said something about a 23 degree edge. If that is per side, that seems like a pretty steep angle to me. Unless this is a camping blade or an axe or something, I'd start at 15 degrees per side (30 degrees total, 15 per side of the blade).
Ok, actually finally: I'm still learning and I think I do a lot better than your average guy with a knife and a stone, but I'm not an expert at all.
Brian.