Smoke/prayers please

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TomFetter

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Lately my marriage has hit some very rough, maybe fatal rocks. I'd welcome all smoke/prayers for the best outcome for us and our kids.

Tom.
 
Tom,

Mine was on the rocks last year, and I thought it was over. The love was gone, but the commitment stayed with us (luckily). This year has been the best of our ten years together. I will pray for you, and I hope it works out. Keep the commitment strong and you'll make it through and the love will come back. Beware of depression associated with the troubles. This will interfere with the reconcilliation and you should deal with it immediately. If you need anything, send me an e-mail.

Your Friend,

Andy
 
~~~Smoke~~~

Many of us have been in similar situations. Some marriages made it, some did not. In any case, there are survivors here who are willing to help.
 
I've been there buddy. Divorced with two sons in 1985 (stings like hell), and remarried in 1991. All parties in the original situation are much happier now. It is my wish for you that you and your wife find what leads to happiness for you both and follow that path wherever it leads. Much smoke and many prayers.
 
Well my marriage was on the rocks as well......the remedy is a lot of patience, a lot of understanding and a lot of respect. And people usually do say mean things which they don't really mean it at the time which they'll regret later, so try to look past that and hang on. Patience, understanding and respect.
 
TomFetter said:
I think you've got it right, Astrodada. It's the patience part that's hardest (for me).
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Hey TomF I'd grind it out....no matter how impatient and unreasonable both sides are.......just take a step back, look at things from a boarder perspective.There may lies a different world.

In a lifetime there are turbulent times and the calms. Please do your best to ride out the roughs.
 
Smoke and prayers from Reno
 
Just as you requested, Tom.

Dunno about your case, but my experience is that most arguments aren't about the subject of the argument.

Hope it works out well for everyone.
 
Kismet said:
Just as you requested, Tom.

Dunno about your case, but my experience is that most arguments aren't about the subject of the argument.

Hope it works out well for everyone.
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So true.....it's the deep under disgrunt that one's holding out till the steam blows.............
 
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