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Just speaking for myself here
But I really must say that having a special needs kid has huge rewards
You folks with "normal" often ask " but how do you do it?"
Well here's the tip
We don't know any differant
Raelene and I have only Jesse and all the things we have been through are just what we have to deal with as parents
Jesse has a mild developmental delay, which really just means that he is behind in some speech, motor and cognitive areas
He is still a very happy and affectionate kid, loves to help and play outside
But despite some little difficulties small milestones are times of great joy and pride
What others take for granted in childhood development we are very proud of
And also as a parent of a special needs kid boy do you get protective
Some folks are just plain dumb
Waiting in line at the bank and some older guy smiles and says whats your name to Jesse
Now Jesse looks at me and turns away from the old man
Shy you may think
a bit rude to you may think
The old guy says what's HIS problem
Dont he talk or something
I glare at the old guy and just say
Nope we just tell him not to talk to strangers
Then I had to deal with jesse being upset cause the old guy suggested there was something wrong with him
I think Jesse has taught me more about life than anyone or anything else
Rob
But I really must say that having a special needs kid has huge rewards
You folks with "normal" often ask " but how do you do it?"
Well here's the tip
We don't know any differant
Raelene and I have only Jesse and all the things we have been through are just what we have to deal with as parents
Jesse has a mild developmental delay, which really just means that he is behind in some speech, motor and cognitive areas
He is still a very happy and affectionate kid, loves to help and play outside
But despite some little difficulties small milestones are times of great joy and pride
What others take for granted in childhood development we are very proud of
And also as a parent of a special needs kid boy do you get protective
Some folks are just plain dumb
Waiting in line at the bank and some older guy smiles and says whats your name to Jesse
Now Jesse looks at me and turns away from the old man
Shy you may think
a bit rude to you may think
The old guy says what's HIS problem
Dont he talk or something
I glare at the old guy and just say
Nope we just tell him not to talk to strangers
Then I had to deal with jesse being upset cause the old guy suggested there was something wrong with him
I think Jesse has taught me more about life than anyone or anything else
Rob