What kind of jig are you using? Words can only get you so far. You either just have to try different things and see what works or watch plenty of videos. You may want to look into Fred Rowe's Bubble Jig.
Paint the whole thing with dye or sharpie. Scribe two edge lines. Knock off the edge at 45 degrees. Make another pass on each side at a more acute angle while keeping the edge as the highest contact point of the belt (edge up grinding). I find I like to just remove some metal until I get about a 1/2" bevel then really concentrate on pulling it straight and even. Once your bevel is at the point where there is enough surface area to hold it against the belt then that is where the fun begins. From here on in it's about keeping pressure on either the top or bottom depending on where you need more metal removed.
You just have to practice to get the principals down and from there I'm sure it's a lifetime to perfect (okay, maybe a stretch).
Stay away from your plunge until your bevels are almost done. Leave an 1/8". Then plunge your plunge at once and match the other side. My plunges were an absolute struggle until I did this.
Also, stay just shy of the spine for a full flat grind and only break to the spine after heat treating. Hand sanding can fix a lot of issues if you leave enough metal to work with and aren't in a rush.
I'm still very new at this so if/when someone who has been around here a while contradicts me then I'd defer to them.

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There has been so much written on the process I probably should have copied a link from one of Fred's postings but I'm on the phone and it's not so easy. Search some of his stuff and you should be all set.
Good luck!
edit: I should add that you should use an old belt to knock off the 45 degree initial edge and then move to new quality belts after that. Grit, I don't think, is so important (anything between 36 and 100 would probably get the job done but I like Norton Blaze 50's for the bevel). As you get the grind height closer to where you want to end, move to 100. Finish off at about 220. I have had good luck working the plunge in at 100.