^^Didn't really want to reproduce the whole thing, but very well said. I appreciated this post.
As far as I'm concerned, an item is worth what YOU want to pay for it. All I can offer is my impressions on whether or not a product was worth it to me.
For my part, I purchased a RatManDu. I like it. It's a great knife. Is it functionally superior to a Becker? I sure haven't noticed much of a difference. Is the handle more comfortable? Not really. I think it LOOKS cooler, and the overall aesthetics appeal to me more. But I do think the ergos on a Becker handle are generally better.
What really puts me over firmly on the side of the Becker camp isn't just the price. It's that Beckers are just so much fun to mod. I spend zero time in the Swamp Rat section, so I don't know if they're quite as rabid as we are, but you can get a Becker at a great price, use the heck out of it, and mod it so that it's exactly the knife that you want it to be. I'd be surprised to hear that people do the same with a Rat. It's all perspective though. A lot of us here LIKE modding knives, and making them our own. A lot of people also like to just get a product that they're happy with out of the box. So people will understandably have different perspectives on whether a knife is worth it to them.
I'm sure a lot of people would never even consider spending $3500+ on a folding knife. But I know for sure I'll spend that some day, because I really really really want a custom Darrel Ralph Gun Hammer. Will it be functionally better than a $35 Kershaw or Benchmade? Probably a little, but certainly not 100x. But it will make me 100 times happier, so it's worth it to me.
And, to be honest, the other reason I go Becker is because I really far prefer Beckerheads to the folks over in the Busse subforums. Not that they're not great people, I just think that we have something truly special here, and everyone, from Ethan and Toooj, to our trinity of mods, to the long-time 'Heads, really makes you feel proud to own a Becker knife.
In short, I buy Becker because they represent values to me. Good value per cost, and more intangible values, like generosity, modesty, and camaraderie. Oh, and creativity too.