Very, very few people even try to make all of the neccesary parts. Each is a traditional craft of its own, and takes a lifetime to master. You can bluff your way through it, but you're better off going with a little help.
Now, that being said, in terms of habaki construction, they are talking about soldering in the proper sense, just like a pipe. You need to be very careful, though, as this one piece is what will make or break the whole job. First of all, it needs to be shaped properly, to compliment the blade. It needs to be work hardend to resist getting squashed by the force of cutting, but still soft enough to not damage the machi.
It will butt up to a seppa, generall called a washer, mopre appropriately called a shock absorber. It will help dissipate the forces into the hard tsuba. The tsuba needs to be done properly, so as not to damage the blade it's mounted on. Then, another, smaller, seppa. This will serve to further insulate the tsuba from damaging the fuchi, which is that first metal collar that you come onto.
Fuchi need to be of the proper size to compliment the blade, which means it needs to work with the habaki, visually. It helps hold both halves of the handle together, as well as significantly reinforce the end of the handle, and keep it from splitting. Remember, these are Japanese blades, they're all about cutting. A pair of menuki will go under the ito, and over the samegawa. Whether you want them in the palms, or under the fingertips is completely up to you. There has been plenty of discussion over which is more proper, and no one can agree on anything, except to say that they both are found historically.
The kashira is going to serve less of a purpose than the fuchi, which is one of the reasons why you'll find them made out of horn, among other things. Generally, their main purpose is to hold the other end of the handle together. So what you wind up with is very, very soft wood (so as not to damage the steel), surrounded by what is essentially a horrid rawhide, bound in tight silk, and capped on both ends in metal. Systematic overkill that took three hundred years to figure out, and remained the same for the next 1,000.
Darryl