Teaching your children to sword fight

Interesting progression. I always thought that spears were the weapon of the novice.

I think that if I try and start my boy with hand to hand he'll loose interest quickly. I home school btw, so I do know a little about his learning style.

That is the point with martial arts - you have to build a base, and prove your mentality to earn the right to train in weapons. In China the masters would accept children at a very young age, but they would have to show quite a bit of determination before getting took on as a student - given impossible tasks, humiliated to test their self control, and made to do chores (remember the Karate kid? Wax on wax off!). Their first lessons would be something like doing all the dishes while holding a horse stance, they weren't even started out with hand to hand combat. The first thing I learned (besides the self-defense class that was offered free as a primer) was a jab. The second thing was trapping the knee. It was a couple years before I learned the entirety of those 2 things (I was taught a lot more, but probably did those same 2 techniques 3,000 times before getting the finer points). It would concern me that he would lose interest so quickly if the end result was arming him with a weapon. It's hard to teach safety, fundamentals, and all the important beginner stuff if you're trying to teach it to a kid with a shiny sword in their hand.

No matter what route you go, I wouldn't throw him directly into swordplay. There is a method involved in progression, and you learn a lot of respect and prove your resilience to the point that when you get to a weapon it isn't even a reward by then, but a milestone - it was a pretty fun experience for me when I was a kid. It worked too, I remember the point that I understood snapping my punches back so I could get back in guard faster, and focusing on form and precision to gain mechanical advantage, and I was just in 2nd grade or so.
 
Chris,

I may have missed it but what is your level of martial arts proficiency?

A sensei I had once noted that practice makes permanent. Perfect practice makes perfect. Any other practice will need to be unlearned.
 
Glad a stumbled across this thread. Don't have kids... Yet but have two god sons and ones 9 and is already having a fondness for the sword and the other just turned one but his old man( my buddy) is already talking about getting him into it which means I have to get myself in gear so he has an extra person to spar with. Good advice pretty much exactly what I was thinking.
 
scanning through the posts I did not see any one mention a Shinai, its a split bamboo section, it stings but it is very unlikely to break bones as it flexes on impact. As kids my and my brothers used boken and we had the bruises and injured fingers to go with it. as I grew up I found out about Shinai and how much safer it became. I never liked the foam weapons, it makes blocks and rapid transitions and movements impossible. you can focus on lots of techniques or just have fun and get them use to the weight and agility needed to swing.
trial and error is a great teacher to.
 
Actually the Shanai was mentioned on page 1 by JParanee, and it is a excellent suggestion.
 
Full hard swings with a shinai can be quite damaging.....every year....some poor yudansha gets whacked in the head by a total newbie and winds up with a concussion....train hard/train safe.

Point is, shinai are SAFER, but they are still weapons and can cause damage, especially when children don't have some degree of discipline instilled upon them from the beginning.

Best Regards,

STeven Garsson
 
I agree that the shinai is a great choice, but for adults not a five year old. I have never used the foam chanbara weapons myself but they seem like a reasonable option for children as young the OP's.

Ultimately I would seek out a qualified instructor for training, but at this young age I don't see where play fighting will give cause for unlearning later. As kids we fought with swords (er, sticks) as we played knights, pirates, vikings, etc., etc. Yet, later when I sought out legitimate training, those years of playing didn't have any negative effect whatsoever, other than the occasional desire to drink rum with tavern wenches and have someone walk the plank.
 
my 6 year old daughter and i play fight with Filipino escima sticks..we started with light sabers and went from there..we just play around with them but its good to start young..she and i shoot her bb gun and her single shot 22lr at our private range as well..she can hit an apple at 20 yards..
 
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