Thanking our War Veterans

Brian Jones

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Hi, everyone,

Been away from the forums ab it and not online much, but wanted to pop in and share this with you all:

Last night I played the blues jam at the local Pub in my town. It was fun as always. At one point, a guy bought 10 or 12 pitchers of beers for everyone in the bar. He asked us to make a toast to his fallen Vietnam buddies when we hoisted one. Needless to say, this guy was so bombed himself that he could barely walk, and decided he needed to go home. The owner of the bar kindly and compassionately helped him to the door and across the busy intersection, and watched him continue down the street aways, making sure he was okay, then came back in the bar to report that the man seemed to be making his way. This was around 11 pm.

At the 2 am closing of the pub, my friend and fellow musician, Scott, who lives down the street, asked if I’d like to check out his recording studio on the way home, so we left the bar and headed on down. Our eyes were drawn to something not quite right in the shadows in the yard of one house. There we found our veteran friend lying on the grass, having vomited at some point. We rushed over, and to our relief, he was conscious, but in the very early stages of hypothermia. There is no doubt in my mind that if we or someone else had not found him, he would have been dead from exposure within an hour or two. It was a very frigid night. We picked him up and each took a side and held onto him and had him put his arms around our shoulders, but he was unable to stand without our help. I asked him his name and address, which he was able to answer. His address was about a half-mile away, and we knew even with our help, we weren’t going to be able to walk him that far. Thankfully, our astute friend Mars spotted us and pulled up in his van, so we carefully got the man into the front seat, piled in the back, and drove him to his house. The house had a long walkway and two sets of stairs. We managed to get him one step at a time down them and to his door, then brought him inside to the couch. I kept talking to him the whole time to reassure him, and he kept mumbling thank you’s to us, and had some tears in his eyes. We carefully laid him on his side on his couch, and put a nice warm blanket over him, and stayed with him for a few minutes to make sure he would be alright. He became a little more lucid once he got warm. Still teary-eyed, he kept thanking us.

I looked at him, and I thanked him profusely for his service to our country – for standing on the wall to protect the rest of us back home here in the States, and that we got his “six” anytime…and, of course, for the fine microbrews he bought for everybody.

What specific memories and trauma were haunting him that night, I do not know. All I know is that he is a kind and generous man, who was in turmoil from a time when he was under fire in service to our country. That is all I need to know.

Please remember to thank our veterans – no matter which conflict they fought in – past or present, and to lend them a hand if they need one. We in the US would not have our rights and freedoms were it not for them.

I stopped by his house this morning and knocked at his door to check on him, but he did not answer…it was fairly early and I figured he was still sleeping it off.

I hope he is alright.
 
Great job Brian :thumbup:, also thank you for posting this thread. It amazes me how rude and disrespectful some people are to veterans and some military branches. So it feels great to see a post like this. Also if you don't mind would you let us know, if you check on him again, how he is doing.
 
Excellent thread. First of all, you did a good thing, looking out for a fellow human being. You and your friends may have saved a man's life! Far too many people would have just walked away. Yes, to a certain extent, we are our brother's keeper.

Second, I wholeheartedly agree with your sentiments about veterans. I very often disagree with our politicians, but I promised myself long ago I would never diss a vet. I never served in the military, but I damn sure appreciate the freedoms I enjoy because of their service and sacrifices.

Thank goodness we seldom see the kind of abuse that was heaped on our fathers, uncles and brothers (sisters too!) that served in Vietnam, anymore. I can't imagine what they went through :(

Brian, I applaud your sense of humanity, and thank you for reminding us to be grateful :thumbup:
 
Thanks for posting this.

I never served in the military, but I damn sure appreciate the freedoms I enjoy because of their service and sacrifices.

Brian, thank you for helping that man.

Matt
 
brian,

I am glad you helped the guy. Too many people still think that vietnam vets are not hero's. I think that every person is a hero, Because they stand up for whats right, and put aside their wants and needs. I really appriciate this.

My Grandfather was in the d-day invasion on normandy and omaha beaches. The was in the 30th infantry division. on d-day+4 or so one of his friends got shot when the nazi's ambushed them, and under fire he ran picked up his buddy on his back, held him with one arm and fired with the other he almost got to safety when 3 bullets from a mp40 ripped through both his tibulas to break his legs. three of his buddies came to their aide and got them out of harms way. However, he got a silver star for this act.

He didnt talk about the war much i figured because it was horrible enough for him to live with he didnt want to bestow those memory's on the ones he loved. He was a good man and a great grandfather. He died early a Sunday morning on the 10 of April 2000. He was 81. Lived in Chattanooga Tn most of his life.

If he were still here i hope someone would do the same, thanks.
 
Brian, I'm not surprised you did this having met you last year. You are a fine person and very leadership oriented. Just wished you had'nt moved so dang far South! Miss you up here in the North. Hope you get a chance to get up this way in the future for a gathering of WSS folks. Respect for our Veterans runs deep in my family too, as it should in all Americans lives. Semper Paratus!
 
You're a good man, Brian. My uncle was pretty shaken up by Viet Nam, although he doesn't really talk about it much.

I never really understood the vet mentality some of these guys have, until I spent time in the navy myself. After that, I've always made it a point to listen when these folks have something to say - sometimes, I'm the only person who wants to listen to them. Kind of makes me sad, really.

Definitely let us know how he is.

thx - cpr
 
Thanks, everyone...just doing what I'd hope anyone would in that situation.

Update: saw him yesterday and he's fine - bought me a beer. He said he doesn't usually drink tequila with beers, but that the Petrone went down way too easy. He was embarrassed by his behavior but I told him we've all been there. We hung out for awhile and he's a pretty interesting guy, and just a genuinely nice person.
 
Good job. I don't believe in coincidences anymore. I think you made a new friend.
 
I always thank a vet, and get teary eyed at our national anthem. I am a civilian, but extremely proud of our armed forces. I get goosebumps sometimes thinking of our heros. Cannot explain it, it is just there. I got to talk to a guy who ran with the Flying Tigers-he admitted that he flew cargo, and the tigers were his escorts. Great store parking lot conversation with a steel eyed grey haired vet. I once got disciplined sending an inter office email about reminding all it was veteran's day and that freedom never is/was free. Great post.
 
I fricking had tears in my eyes a few nights ago, watching our CDN Forces boys carry three caskets to the aircraft. I'm a civvie (that might change soon!) and everytime i hear the bagpipes i weep.

my elderly neighbor is a CDN Army Vet. I help him out with his car every once in awhile, and listen to his recounts of the war. He is a little guy, about 5' 3", maybe 120lbs. he has recounted many events from the war. The thing that sticks out most is the Brotherhood amongst the troops. Little things like one of them making funny comments during a godawful brutal firefight, where they were pinned down for 9 DAYS. One of the lads, weak with hunger & fatigue and battle weary made a funny joke and everyone burst out laughing and then they went over the trench walls and bayoneted every single one of the enemy coming over the trench walls 15 feet over. My neighbour got a little misty-eyed remembering that, not the brutal horror of that 10 minute fight, but of the camaraderie prior to it.

we were at the Remembrance Day ceremonies last year. He put on his well worn, almost thread bare uniform and stood proud. When it was time for him to put his wreath on the Memorial, he faltered, not because of age, but the sheer emotion in remembering his friends. His eyes did'nt tear up until he saluted, then the tears came. I stood beside him, supporting him tall. He said a few words, several that struck me hard. He said there was a great camaraderie not only amongst his men, but the enemy soldiers at the time. He recounted sharing stale bread, dipped in bacon grease and cups of brutal strong tea with enemy soldiers during a lull in fighting. They were starving he said, and despite the fact that we were cold and hungry too, he shared his rations. Hours later he fired upon them. At this point his voice was barely a whisper, and he was shaking. 'i shot the same man I shared bread and tea with'

So here is to my neighbor. I raise a glass in Honor of you, and your Brothers that you saw fell.
 
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Brian, you and your friends did the right thing. Thank You.

far too many of our Vets get ignored. The new generation does'nt give a rats azz about them. Makes me ******** mad.
 
Im laying here, in my bed, down in sounthern Iraq. Im comin home so so so soon and I was just skimming the forum, lookin to buy a knife, which i found one, and I happened across your post. Now mind you, im the farthest thing from emothional but to be quite honest, your post sent a tear rollin down my cheek.

Im a young Airman, Security Forces for the Air Force to be exact, and Im 23 years old. Ive been in for just about 2 years, and in my few years so far, have receiver appreciation from people I did not know, nor have or or will ever see again. It means alot.

Ive also had a young man tell me that he hoped I died when I came over here. I actually forgot about that till I started writing this, but I have never forgot the acts of kindness and appreciation.

Thank you for showing an "Old Vet" kindness and a "Young" one that there are still good people out there, I have forgotten in the past 6 months that stuff like this happens, as Iraq is not the nicest place to be.

Thanks again,

Airman 1st Class Donald C. Brown
 
Ive also had a young man tell me that he hoped I died when I came over here. I actually forgot about that till I started writing this, but I have never forgot the acts of kindness and appreciation..................

Thanks again,

Airman 1st Class Donald C. Brown

Don,
Dont hold it against him... Hes a dumbass and doesnt know it... Itll hit him one day and he'll realize it.. HAve fun man.. Get home soon..
 
Thank you, young man.:thumbup:

Some of my older brothers who 'experienced' Vietnam had it pretty rough ... and then they came home. The social stigma, at the time, was worse than people can understand today. It can really wear away at you, as time goes by.

He won't forget your kindness, and neither will I.
 
A great story Brian, and it's obvious that you're a decent and honorable human being, something that seems to be getting rarer these days!

My grandfather, a member of the Australian Lighthorse, fought in the Middle East. Never talked much about it but when he did it was worth listening to.

When I was first learning to fly there was an old guy who always seemed to be hanging around the airfield. People said he was just some old guy always wanting to talk and to pay no attention to him. I sat down and listened to him one day. He was a Spitfire pilot in the Battle of Britain! His stories were remarkable, to say the least. I almost looked forward to talking to him more than flying.

The moral of the story: If one of these heroes wants to talk to you, sit down and listen for a bit. You OWE it to them.

Thanks again Brian, good job.
 
Im laying here, in my bed, down in sounthern Iraq. Im comin home so so so soon and I was just skimming the forum, lookin to buy a knife, which i found one, and I happened across your post. Now mind you, im the farthest thing from emothional but to be quite honest, your post sent a tear rollin down my cheek.

Im a young Airman, Security Forces for the Air Force to be exact, and Im 23 years old. Ive been in for just about 2 years, and in my few years so far, have receiver appreciation from people I did not know, nor have or or will ever see again. It means alot.

Ive also had a young man tell me that he hoped I died when I came over here. I actually forgot about that till I started writing this, but I have never forgot the acts of kindness and appreciation.

Thank you for showing an "Old Vet" kindness and a "Young" one that there are still good people out there, I have forgotten in the past 6 months that stuff like this happens, as Iraq is not the nicest place to be.

Thanks again,

Airman 1st Class Donald C. Brown

Donald, thank you for your service to our country. Next time I am out I'll hoist one in a toast to you and your buddies over there. Get home safe, okay?

The man and I have become friends. He is a geologist by trade, and has actually been quite successful as a gold prospector, too! Really interesting stories, and he shared a bit with me recently about his experiences in Vietnam. He is a gem of a human being, and I feel fortunate to have gotten to know him.
 
Good to hear. When I think of veterans, Vietnam era people come to mind. People over 50. Then I remember "Sh*t... I'm a veteran" ... I'm too young to be one LOL
 
Good to hear. When I think of veterans, Vietnam era people come to mind. People over 50. Then I remember "Sh*t... I'm a veteran" ... I'm too young to be one LOL
That's okay; Vietnam veterans used to think that veterans were those who fought in Korea or WWII. WWII veterans thought that veterans were those who fought in WWI, etc.
 
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