Interesting thread, guys! In fact, this is my first reply to the forum, and first ever day surfing it.
A bit of a background for myself and my own views...
1) I got interested in knives mostly via boy-scouts as a younger boy. However, I did come across two fix-blades in Canada that were my father's and his brother's from their scouting days.
2) I actually learned to properly handle (as much as one can at that age) axes and knives with my boy-scouting experiences. As much of a joke as we made it, the Totem Chit (Totin' Chip?), it was useful to learn to respect blades and axes.
3) Soon thereafter I played with various swiss-army knives, eventually realizing that the larger multi-tool knives weren't as useful as the ever-present SAK classic (bigger ones were harder to pocket). I've carried the classic almost every day since around freshman year of high-school and perhaps even in middle-school. I never made a big thing about it, and it rarely came out at school, and if so, it was done in a quiet way without any florish. Get the job done back in the pocket. Luckily I was never called up for it, thank goodness as today's climate is insanely extreme on carrying something simple as a classic.
4) Around middle-school, I cut myself doing silly stuff- once bad enough to go to the hospital. I learned how good a level-headed Dad was in that situation. I learned the value of a sharp knife from the ER doc who helped - asked which knife I had cut myself with- told him (perhaps even showed him it). He was impressed- said it was like a scalpel cut, and wouldn't need sutures- they applied suture-tape instead, bandaged me, and sent me home with a few instructions. [Dad cut his thumb-pad mostly off with a circular saw while I was a toddler, and learned the pain of sutures in his thumb... he was very happy I didn't have to go through that.]
Speaking of school rules... I have a junior groomsman in my upcoming wedding who I'd love to give an SAK classic to. But, he's a young teenager, and I know it'll end up in his pocket and at school. I find I just can't bring myself to gift him one because of this. As well his father suggested that I don't gift him any knife. I feel bad about this, I certainly had blades by his age, but he's a bit rambunctious and rebellious. I'm afraid it'll just end up in trouble. Any opinions on this, please feel free to message me or reply here (I don't want to thread-jack).
In graduate school I was introduced to my first real high-quality knife that bordered on tactical. I purchased a Benchmade Mel Pardue model from a friend who had a friend who dealt in knives. Loved the thing. Lost it way too early. [still miss it, although it was a bit daggar-like and was a bit too small for the hand] But, after having it for a while, I realized a longer blade is really horribly useful.
Today? Well, for over 10 years (I think it's been) I've been carrying a Ken Onion Chive in the pocket- fantastic knife, very easy to open, love it. It's a bit shocking to the folks around here (midwest) when I take it out, but it's small and not very scary (green handle). They see me use it to eat fruit with and open packages- I think it's never really questioned. At least no one has ever really discussed it with me, so it must be much more common here. I do however worry about it's use or carry of it. [Especially with spring-assist.]
In order to evaluate knives for the groomsmen, I've purchased myself a Spyderco Salt1 - love the thing dearly now that I've spent some time with it! Great knife. That was going to be the groomsman's gift. But, most of my pals are not knife-guys. I worry it won't be used or carried. For those up near Chicago, I'm worried it'll be a problem if they go into the city. Alternative? I might be getting them a Salt I ladybug... but it's just so small. I used to have a ladybug (old version), and without keys to help hold it, it's almost dangerous it's so small. But, the blade is very legal and around the same size as the SAK classic- just a bit more aggressive cutter with Spyderedge. I wanted the H1 steel to try and keep it useful to them for many years to come even if they lose it in the salty ice near their driveway until spring.
It's sad, though. I use my EDC knife every day for many tasks. That classic gets use almost every other day as needed (often just for the scissors!). I just can't see myself without a knife on hand. It pains me to go places I can't carry one, because I feel a bit naked without something so useful on hand.
Of course I know what I'll be teaching my own children, and I am open with the knife(ves) amongst friends and family members - who clearly see its usefulness. So great to find this thread and like-minded knife fellows. Sorry this post was so long- you touched on a hot-button issue I have, as I too have seen people's emotions become inflamed about knife carrying. It's a shame.
[After submitting- Holy crap- that was long!! I'm sorry! I've even shortened it a few times!]