On a recent thread I remarked that I didn't have an Opinel. I got an email from Carl asking for my address, saying he wanted to remedy my problem. A few days later, a beautiful Opi No. 6 Inox was in my mailbox.
Here it is slightly modified.
I can't begin to express what this knife, this little inexpensive piece of French cutlery means to me.
My family has been going through some rough times with my wife's ongoing illness. We have five kids and it is hard to take care of them and take care of her and still take care of me too, you know?
I was feeling pretty down. My mental state had started to affect my work, which is not a safe thing for anyone. Carl's gift came at just the right time. It was such an indescribable pick-me-up.
I relayed the above to Carl and he told me a story. Here is the quote, I hope he doesn't mind:
Life is like a road trip, sometimes nice and smooth, but sometimes there's a detour on rough roads. But even a rough road comes out someplace, and you just continue on your way. I remember one bad dirt road, terrible drive, topped a hill and thre it was; a whole field of golden wild flowers. Karen and I stopped in amazement and gawked. It was like something out of the Wizzard Of Oz. To this day, over 20 years later, we still remember the detour with the field of golden flowers. There's always something to stop and enjoy, even if it's the little things in life. A sunset, a glass of your favorite drink, a new knife.
Last night I did just that. Night had fallen, the crickets were chirping loudly, and the air had given up the heat of the day. My kids were asleep, my wife was headed to bed. I sat on the front porch rocker in the dark, with my dog next to me, and my new knife on my leg. I stared off into the night, my right hand resting lightly on my dog's neck and my left holding my new Opinel. I heard the front door open softly behind me. My wife wrapped her arm around my neck and whispered in my ear, "I love you." I said, "I'll be up in a few minutes." She looked at me with her beautiful eyes and smiled as she slowly walked back through the front door.
The night smelled clean and sweet, and as the dog and I sat there and listened to the crickets, a calm came over me. I knew that it would be ok. Maybe not today, or tomorrow, but eventually. I just had to keep walking down that dirt road.
I stood up, slid the Opinel into my hip pocket, and said, "Let's go to bed, girl." The dog leaned knowingly against my leg and we headed inside.
When stuff gets tough, I just pull out that Opi and remind myself that at the end of the dirt road there's bound to be a field of flowers.