I agree totally that winning isnt the ultimate goal:thumbup:
but winning is still important to all that participate
I have seen and heard of those parents. We also make sure we get em all in, but were also clear this last week that the kids needed to be at the game hour early and if they rolled in 15 minutes prior to game time that they would lose their starting position as this was a real problem at the first game trying to get ready. They all still played a good bit cause its just what has to be done at this age group, but its still frustrating to have parents not care enough to show up late and not come to practice.
Its also amazing to hear some of the kids come in and be so honest this week when asked where they were and why not at practice. Answers ranged from family drama, I guess my mom's softball practice was more important, we wont be at the game cause we are going to a SC gamecocks game this weekend--this one took the cake I guess cause its only 1 1/2 to Columbia, and the follow up was well my parents will be tail gating
I havent missed a practice and neither has my son even though one night this last week was PTO which was why practice had such a low turn out, but we were still there. I figured if teacher needed me bad enough she could send me a note home, but to my sons credit he is a great student. THe next night I had no explanation.
I can understand work as even some of the other coaches have missed along with parents or have been late cause of it. I will miss wednesdays practice and might even miss this one game due to KC, but this is my work. Although my son wont miss anything cause of it and will be there. I will still most likely leave Friday morning and drag myself home so Im at the game cause I signed up for it.
I just dont understand parents signing kids up for something and not being there when the whole team is depending on everyone. I know its in no way the kids fault as they cant come alone but all the coaches and team mom have offered to even pick kids up if there was a problem.
Coaching is cool but there is a lot of drama associated with it.