I am so sorry for your loss, especially on top of all you've been through. It is always the hardest thing to do. I wholeheartedly agree with your decision to have your other dog see Max after this all happened. It is the same advice my Vet gave me when I was able to have the Vet come to the house to put down my Rhodesian Ridgeback. She said that dogs understand the cycle of life but if the dog just disappears they keep waiting for their partner to come back.
I am glad that Jake is there to comfort you and to give you someone to care for.
I am glad that Jake is there to comfort you and to give you someone to care for.