This will be my last post for a while..

Vampire Gerbil

Gone, but not forgotten. RIP Dave
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(Moderators, please bear with this Off Topic post. It seems that alot of people know me here and I feel as if they're part of my family)

At about 1400 hours on 10/21/04 my wife, Stacie, was driving to some races that are held in Vegas. She does this every year mainly to see her parents.
At about 1800 hours, her father called me and said that Stacie had called 2 hours prior, saying she' be there in 45 minutes.
I said, "Well, you know Stacie, she's always running late or stopping someplace to get gifts, etc.

A little after that call, my son Tim came in with my daughter Alisha, both crying.
Alisha said "Mom was killed in a car accident"
I'll skip the details after that, but there's no mistake about it.

Right now I'm pretty worn out from making phone calls to her brother, father, son, friends.... anyone that she was close with.
I also called people that were close to me, for support, but the calls couldn't last long cuz I was crying like... well, you know.

Anyhow, I wanted to post here to let the most people at once know why I may not be around for a bit. I never was much in the way of helping folks with knives anyhow, although I did my best with pepper spray and firearms.... but obviously, most of what I did here was try and get a laugh out of people.
At this time, I can't imagine myself even smiling in the near future, let alone laughing or making others laugh. I feel as if most of me has died.

If you're the religious type and say a little prayer, that would be most welcome. If you're not relgious, well, good wishes don't hurt... they might help us.

I'm not going to respond to anything that may be written here, mainly because it would be too painful, but I'll read them and thank you in advance now, ok?

I'll come back when I'm better.
Thanks.
Dave

stacie.jpg

Stacie Lynn Gittelman
8/24/65 - 10/21/04
(That was always my favorite picture of Stacie; She just loved kids.... and most adults, even though in my eyes, many did not deserve it.)
If you'll bear with me, this picture was taken on our second anniversary; on our way to see George Carlin.
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Thanks for listening.
Dave
 
Hello Dave....

I've not correspond with you before but your site and threads have always been a huge source of entertainment and laughter for me and my friends...especially the ones regarding dating your lovely daughters....

I feel your pain. I love my wife so much that I wouldn't know how to live properly without her. She has been part of my life for so long.... I know that I haven't been a good husband but well, I can only try harder.

From what I can tell, you are a strong person. Please know that some prayers will be coming from the opposite of the planet.

At this point in time, words will not do much.... If there's anything I can do from my side, please do not hesitate to contact me.

I'm sorry about the whole thing...

Sean
simyit@yahoo.com
simyit.howe@hilti.com
 
Dave,
I am very sorry about this. We will be here if you need anything.

n2s
 
Sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers to Stacie.. Take care Dave.

Sam
 
Dave you and i have not talked much on the forum but i wish to let you know that you and your family are in mine and my wifes prayers and if you need anything please feel free to contact use and we will do what we can to help you in your time of need best wishes to you and your family for the coming times ahead

lee brooks

BROOKSKNIVES.canada

brooksknives@shaw.ca
 
Words just really can't express it for something like this. On top of everything else you're going through right now I can't imagine how this feels. At least know that there are a lot of people out there who care even if they only know you through a computer. :( Your wife looks like a wonderful woman and I'm sure she'll be missed.
 
Sorry to hear about your losses. Try not to be to Sad, I am sure Stacie would not want you to sad about it. Remember her for all the good memories she has given to you.
 
Dave,
Remember to hold on to the memory of her in your heart and she will always be there.
Be with the ones you love dearly and share your feelings with them. Don't go this alone.
Howard
 
Dave, ...I'm at a loss for words.

"I'm sorry" just doesn't convey the complete feeling, but it is the best I can offer.

Visit when you are able. You are close to many here on the forums...keep in contact with them please.
 
So sorry to hear about your loss, Dave. My prayers are with you and your family.
 
bud that really sucks, am so sorry, condolences to you and your family, take care of yourself the kids need you now............

greg
 
Dave, I'm lost for words. Just wanted to let you know you and your family are in my thoughts.
Take care.

Phil
 
Check your email, man........I hope it makes sense....I really am at a loss for words.:confused:
Thinking of you and yours....

Larry S.
 
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