Dave, I read your message and my heart broke for your wife, you and your family. Grief and the grieving process are very powerful emotionally, and sometimes one can only hang on for the ride. The good news is that human beings can be very resilient, and while what has happened may stress you to the breaking point, there are a lot of people out here who are standing in line to help you make it through. You, your children, your and your wife's families must be strong for each other, taking turns bearing the pain and supporting each other. You can make it through the next five minutes, and the five after that, and on and on. Thank you for sharing this painful time with us. I am sure a lot of us were reminded that none of us were promised anything and gave our loved ones some extra attention after reading your post.