Thoughts on knife addiction - FOMO

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Long before I was into man jewelry (knives, guns, watches etc...) I was a college kid who like to mod my car and help other people mod theirs. I lived with a group of gear heads who I went to school with, or met through the local car scene. Only one or two people did not modify their car in any way, whereas the majority modified their cars almost every month, with almost every paycheck after paying for tuition, bills and booze. When one person got wheels, other people got wheels and they were always wider, bigger, lighter, and stronger than the previous. When one person bought lowering springs or adjustable shocks, others did too and still others bought entire coilover systems with adjustable camber plates etc...

If I had all of the money I spent modifying my car, right now in the bank, I don't want to think of how awesome of a car I could get :barf:

If I had all of the money I spent on guns I didn't like, I would be Bill Wilson's best friend right now :barf:

Watches etc... :barf:

A few years ago, one of my best friends, Joe, and I were talking about his younger brother Jack, also my friend. He told me how Jack goes out 5 nights a week, every week, sometimes to afterhours, despite having a full time job (which he is very successful in) and being out of college. He said Jack has FOMO. I had never heard this term before. Fear Of Missing Out.

Here are two articles on it:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/annie-stamell/fomo-the-fear-of-missing-_b_817253.html

http://www.businessweek.com/bschools/content/jan2010/bs20100128_021362.htm

I'm sure not everyone here buys knives until they're in financial ruin, like wise with guns, aftermarket car parts, watches, clothes etc... BUT there may be one or two. I can recall someone posting in a car forum a while back about how they liquidated everything they could do put a down payment on the Corvette Grand Sport, and would then have to live on a shoe string budget buying food at Aldi so he could afford maintenance, fuel and upkeep on the car. He seemed very proud of this fact.

Just food for thought
 
The first step toward curing one's knife buying addiction would be to quit this site cold turkey.:eek:
 
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Eh, what the Hell. Everybody's addicted to something. At least with knives you buy into something that, if you make smart purchases, you could resale if you had to. Try that with booze or crack. Tell me, what is the point in me working if I can't buy something that I enjoy? Hey, I can be a bum and not have what I want. And it does no good to say "if I had all the money I spent on blah blah, I'd be rich", because at the time you spent that money, you were enjoying what you spent it on, right? What would you rather do? Live a life you don't enjoy? Money has no value until it is used to buy something. It's a piece of paper. Can you chop a tree down with a one hundred dollar bill? I'd rather be broke and happy than rich and a tightwad who won't spend anything on something that is not totally necessary. I know people like that. Collecting money is their addiction. So they trade my addiction of knives for their addiction of money. What's the difference? Neither one of us will take it with us when we die. I pay my damn bills and keep my own roof over my head. What I do with the rest of my money is buy the things that make me happy. Trust me, if you don't go out and buy the stuff you want, no one else will.
 
Eh, what the Hell. Everybody's addicted to something. At least with knives you buy into something that, if you make smart purchases, you could resale if you had to. Try that with booze or crack. Tell me, what is the point in me working if I can't buy something that I enjoy? Hey, I can be a bum and not have what I want. And it does no good to say "if I had all the money I spent on blah blah, I'd be rich", because at the time you spent that money, you were enjoying what you spent it on, right? What would you rather do? Live a life you don't enjoy? Money has no value until it is used to buy something. It's a piece of paper. Can you chop a tree down with a one hundred dollar bill? I'd rather be broke and happy than rich and a tightwad who won't spend anything on something that is not totally necessary. I know people like that. Collecting money is their addiction. So they trade my addiction of knives for their addiction of money. What's the difference? Neither one of us will take it with us when we die. I pay my damn bills and keep my own roof over my head. What I do with the rest of my money is buy the things that make me happy. Trust me, if you don't go out and buy the stuff you want, no one else will.

Excellent post, melt!:thumbup::thumbup::thumbup:
 
The first step toward curing one's knife buying addiction would be to quit this site cold turkey.

Not everyone that reads these forums have that "weak" mentality where you spend and spend and spend.

Take me for example. I read these boards a few times a day. I started with a ZT0350, then got an Izula, Swamp Warden, Spyderco Streetbeat, Bill Coye Ridgeback, Dirk Pinkerton Variable BroadHead, and DDR HTM Gunhammer. When I got the DDR Gunny, i sold the ZT0350. When I got the Swamp Warden, I sold the Izula. The Ridgeback replaced the Streetbeat and the Swamp Warden. The BroadHead I paid forward and gave away.

I now own only the Gunny. The Ridgeback I sold initially to fund real life concerns (recently...Thrill has it now), though I've managed to save up to the point where I could fund a custom I designed. In the end, I can do with only having a few knives. They just so happen to be the ones I really want. Likewise, that Gunny is gonna get replaced by a custom DDR in the future. I think I may add another custom I designed (same maker as the one the Ridgeback will replace, just larger), but that will be it. I suppose I just prefer having fewer nice knives, than lots of cheaper not so nice knives.

My point is, some of us are actually responsible. Actually, I'll bet most of us are responsible lots here. People sling around that forum joke about how you read these boards and end up with a huge hole in the wallet like it's truth, which it's not.
 
Sounds to me like yet another psycho-babble bullsh...t term. So what if I had to use my kids college money to finance that $16,000 custom knife. I gotta have it, or I'd be missing out! :D
 
Too much focus on the material gear takes away from the enjoyment of the activity.
 
one things for sure...

you can always make more money but you can never make more time.......

buy, buy, buy before you die:D........

one day at a time man..
 
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