Good points in second paragraph. Makes sense.
Don't think I agree with the first. I am using a Sharpal 325/1200 - a continuously encrusted diamond plate. Even on the 325 side the diamond particles are far too close together for the blade to ever touch the substrate. If I am right your argument still works, it's just that the blade is hitting the far harder diamond!
If we are talking a diamond plate with grouped diamonds like an Atoma stone - I would think that to get your blade to hit the substrate your error in angle would have to be so huge that it would never happen. Further, if the blade ever did hit the substrate during a stroke, your concern would not be the apex hitting the substrate but with the far harder raised diamonds rapidly approaching the apex!
I am absolutely going to take your advice and use FEATHER-light strokes on my diamond from now on. I plan to also drag the apex at 90° across a dowel as a proof-test; to drag any fatigued metal off the apex. This way I am testing and getting immediate feedback on my success or otherwise.