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lived in GA for 5 yrs....
the best comment I ever heard was this one:
(paraphrasing)
"You can't call me racist, I'm black"
Next to that one was "If a black man calls another black man a n**g**, it's cool, man....but if a white man says it, it's racism".
Both of these comments came from young black males...and were told to me on more than one occasion...to my face.
HD - until you've lived in GA and witnessed the racism firsthand, you won't understand. I don't condone whatever your friend's behavior was, but lemme tell ya....the biggest lesson I learned about racism is that it's a Two-Way-Street.
Getting a smile (or even eye contact) from a black female at any fast food joint, grocery store, [insert cust. serv. job here], etc., is non-existant.
Personally, I grew up in an area where racism was almost a non-issue. Who had time to care?
But I never felt so hated because of my skin color than I did there.
Like I said: Two-Way-Street
the best comment I ever heard was this one:
(paraphrasing)
"You can't call me racist, I'm black"
Next to that one was "If a black man calls another black man a n**g**, it's cool, man....but if a white man says it, it's racism".
Both of these comments came from young black males...and were told to me on more than one occasion...to my face.
HD - until you've lived in GA and witnessed the racism firsthand, you won't understand. I don't condone whatever your friend's behavior was, but lemme tell ya....the biggest lesson I learned about racism is that it's a Two-Way-Street.
Getting a smile (or even eye contact) from a black female at any fast food joint, grocery store, [insert cust. serv. job here], etc., is non-existant.
Personally, I grew up in an area where racism was almost a non-issue. Who had time to care?
But I never felt so hated because of my skin color than I did there.
Like I said: Two-Way-Street