Jack: is Mrs. Singh Sikh? Only if so, she may have had older members of her family lost fighting with Pathans and other people traditionally native to that area. No excuse and please excuse me and my question, I've had to deal with a lot of racism where I live-from family, friends and neighbors. Not for me personally, but for other friends,etc. I try to learn why people say what they do, in order to understand them, and make cogent points to them in contradiction. However if your neighbor is senile, then that to is understandable, if no less repugnant. Sorry to address this, but...you have too, or it never ends. Delete this if it is deemed necessary, and I will take the infraction. I understand.