I think you need to step back and slow down. No offense, but it sounds like you have a case of "I want to buy right now"-itis, which can lead to a very expensive snap decision.
It really sounds as if you don't know what YOU want. I'll tell you what I prefer, but that may have no bearing on what you will prefer, nor will anyone else's opinion, because they aren't you, and many seriously disagree with my preferences, but they work for me, and those guys' preferences don't work for me. I can also tell you ways to make the most of a certain design. That doesn't mean I even like the design, but can make it work.
And right there is the trick -- you find what feels right to YOU, and then you learn to make it work. Granted, some designs work better for some jobs than others, but you can overcome their shortcomings if you use the tool and learn its ways. Now, if you have a tool you like, and enjoy experimenting with, you're far more likely to put in the effort to adapt to it and make it work.
Best advice is given above, get several of the Cold Steel models, I'd recommend at least the Pipe, Spike, Trail, and Norse hawks. work with them a while, learn what you do and don't like. You can also buy their war hammer hafts and put them on the heads, and progressively saw them down (they start at 30"), until it feels right. You'll then have a good grip on what style you like, how you'd like it altered, and how long a haft you want, and then you can have one of the myriad makers make you one that is entirely yours.
Bottom line is, any haw can do both woods work and defense work. With a traditional handles hawk, you can have the best of both worlds as well -- keep a short haft for defense, and a long one for woods work, and slip the head onto the appropriate one for what you plan to do with it.