What goes around ...

Cougar Allen

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My phone line went dead on me today, but the man who came and fixed it isn't going to charge me for it because his buddy's car broke down and I stopped to help him -- 11 years ago.

He also made a toy out of cable ties and gave it to my cat.

What goes around ... comes around ...
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-Cougar :{)
 
Cool Topic Cougar... Great story and I've got another one for you!

Buncha years back I was at my restaurant job with a buddy hangin' out and doing nothing when we see someone in the parking lot with car trouble... Too messed up for us to fix so I offer a ride which meant my buddy would have to sit around for about an hour till I got back. He was pissed but did it and then complained all the way home. I kept telling him "What goes around comes around Bud!" So, a couple weeks later he and I are in his car and he's driving out to a small mountain town to take care of a traffic ticket he got... His car runs out of gas and he's freaking out. So, we grab a can out of the trunk and were about 12 steps from the car headed back to the nearest town (2 miles) when we get picked up for a ride. Get the gas and aren't 2 steps out of the parking lot when another car picks us up and takes us back to his car. A mishap that could have taken well over two hours to fix plus a little jogging took a little over 15 minutes!!! He was convinced after that and has since gone out of his way to help others!!!

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Shawn

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"... Peers don't know what they can't see...
They can't see inside of me... It's sickening
how comforting the privacy of the mind can be..."

-Eve6 ('How Much Longer')
 
Never forget it! I can't count the number times I have been treated extra special or had an "unprovoked act of knidness" come back bacause of something I said or did for a complete stranger, But that's my job!

It works for anyone willing to go out of thier way though!



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About 20 years ago I was sitting in my place of business looking out the window at the biggest snowfall around these parts since 1950. There was hardly anybody out driving in the mess. After an hour or so, I see this old Oldsmobile station wagon pull into my parking lot. Out comes a man and he is walking towards my front door. There is obviously a family in the car. "Mister" he says, "can you spare me some money for gas? We are over here on vacation and I had to put all our money into getting our transmission fixed." Now we have no money to get back to Montana." I figured it could be a scam, as the neighborhood wasn't the best. But he told me to give him my address and he would pay me back when he got home. I gave him $20 and off he went. 3 years passed. One day I get an envelope in the mail from Montana. In it was $100 and a note. It said: "Sorry to be so late in re-paying you sir, I hope this will repay your act of kindness that cold snowy morning."

I think about him every so often. It always makes me smile.
 
Great thread Cougar! I wish everyone would follow your advice. It would be a better world.

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I get some pleasure from finding a relentlessly peaceful use for a combative looking knife.
JKM
 
I always try to be nice, but I guess I dont try hard enough cause I dont have any stories like these!!!
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A friend of mine carries sticky-notes with him wherever he goes. It's a common around here for people to forget to turn off their headlights, and in the more rural areas, people still do leave their vehicles unlocked. If he finds a vehicle with its headlights on, nad the door unlocked, he turns the lights off and leaves a note asking that the driver do something kind for someone else, as repayment for being saved a dead battery.

As for myself, I recently recieved a free knife. I helped Mike Cooper with his website, and he sent me a free neck knife. Now, I know I didn't do $50 worth of work, and tried to explain that to Mike, but he insisted, and the knife arrived a few days later. I had been considering getting a bowie made, and was looking at several makers' work, but couldn't decide. Who do you think I placed an order with? I mean, I knew from the neck knife that he does good work, and I knew from his generosity that I wouldn't have to worry about whether he would do right by me.

Go out of your way to be helpful, even if you get nothing in return, and sooner-or-later, someone will go out of their way to be helpful to you.

--JB

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Great topic, I makes me feel good that what comes around goes around. It works for good and ill...
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Wayne.
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Several years ago while driving through town I found myself stuck in the left lane at a red light where i needed to take a right turn. A city bus blocked my path, so I gestured to the driver to let me in front of him. He graciously obliged, waiting for me to sneak through when the light turned green and a space opened up. It wasted all of 5 seconds of his time, but I was grateful nonetheless.

About a half mile down the road (still a lot of traffic) I saw a motorist waiting to pull out of a parking lot, so I stopped and waved him through (fully conscious of the notion of what goes around...). A little ways down the road, I saw that driver let somebody else in, and then a moment later the other guy let someone else in!

And wouldn't you know it, later that day I found myself in a similar situation, and the first driver that had the opportunity waved me through.

I can't help but wonder if his actions were somehow related to what had happened earlier that day.

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Hey Cougar....

I Absolutely Agree...

I base my entire business ethic on this very thing.

My son who is in Cub Scouts goes by the law "Do a Good Deed, Every Day!"

That holds true even for us adults..
Something we should all think about more often...

ttyle

Eric....

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While I was reading this I was trying to think if anything like this ever happened to me. Over the past 5yrs I've probably helped about 10 people get their cars out of the snow or unlocked or just gave someone a ride.

Then it hit me about 6yrs ago me and a buddy were leaving Yosemite at about 11:00pm when we saw two people walking around. We turned around and asked if the husband and wife couple needed help. They explained that they had been hiking earlier in the day when they lost their wallet. Having no money and being low on gas they asked if we could give them some money as she had to be back to work as a school teacher the next day. Not having much money left ourselves we scraped together about $10 to give them. They asked for our address to pay the money back, we told them it wasn't necessary but they insisted. About two weeks later we receive a thank you letter from this couple and her school students and also included was a $50. They explained that they were very thankful and after work that next day they went back to Yosemite to find that someone had turned their wallet in to the park rangers.

Thanks for helping me remember this.
 
I gotta lot of good things to do. My fairly brief time on the forums, has produced an amazing # of nice things being done for me. I haven't felt like I belonged anywhere like I feel it here, in many, many years.

I owe bigtime.


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Asi es la vida

Bugs
 
My wife and kids were traveling from San Antonio back home to Houston 2 weeks back and the voltage regulator went out on the van. Fried the battery, most of the fuses, and the fusable links.

My wife was stuck on the side of I-10 with 4 hungry and tired kids for a while before anyone stopped to help. A nice older couple stopped, let my wife call her brother (an A-1 mechanic), waited around until my brother-in-law contacted me and I called her back, gave her some bananas for the kids, and milk for the baby.

Hats off to whoever you are. I owe ya.
 
Cougar, thanks for the thread. I was starting to turn into an ******* today, and this helped get me over it.
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I haven't noticed any immediate benefits from specific help I've lent, but overall there seems to be a kind of balance struck. Like the time I foolishly drove my car too far up a canyon in march a few years ago and couldn't get it turned around before I hit snowpack. Thank goodness for snowmobilers and tow straps.
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Let's keep this thread going.
Now back to lurking...
 
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