I live in north central FL. Suburban best describes most of the state. There are a few urban areas, but they're nothing like NYC, or someplace like that. If Florida had mountains, maybe some desert areas, and a little bit of snow, it would be my most favorite state. I think I just described California.
I think a lot of us who prefer rural and rural-suburban living, also prefer to be around less people, and be within easy reach of the outdoors. I am one of these people.
I also love Manhattan. NYC is such a cool place. I don't even care about all the people touching each other wherever you go. My sister lives in Manhattan, and I love visiting her just as much as I love doing things outdoors. I would have no problem living in Manhattan. I could afford to live on my own in Manhattan, which is something that you have to consider. You walk everywhere, or ride the subway. It's exercise city. It's cool to walk around the corner or a few blocks away and find the hugest variety of everything.
The things I don't like about NYC, and probably all urban areas, are filth, lack of nature, very expensive, knife/gun laws.
I enjoy stuff that is different from my normal life, so that could explain why I like NYC, and also like rural living.