When I was a kid (6-8 years old). My dad gave me a Marttiini cross-guard knife which he dulled the tip on; and, soon after he gave me a coarse stone and showed me the circular-motion-thing.
It didn't take long until I thought that sucked and started to experiment on my own and I soon got used to a decent working edge (not razor-sharp) at about 280-400 grit.
I always used to sharpen all of my parents blades, but it wasn't until a few years ago that I started to progress through the grits -- and what a difference that made!
Honestly, in the last 5 years I've learnt to become more respectful of edged tools, since I've learnt how to mirror-polish and get my edges so sharp that I can shave my beard with them.
When I was younger, I unknowingly used force to compensate for dullness, whereas today I shudder at the thought of ever using force again, as the consequences could be life-altering with the edges I create today.