A few things: $85 is actually a pretty decent price for the DMT XX 8", its the going rate in the US as well, even though there is at least one ebay store that sells it cheaper (thanks Thom!).
It is my firm belief that on a soft waterstone, you have to use trailing strokes. If you don't, you will gauge the stone, but more importantly, you will dull the edge. Gauging means that the edge bites straight into the abrasive and even if you don't gauge, just a tad too steep angle will actually shave abrasive, which is just as bad for the edge. On hard abrasives I usually use a leading edge stroke, but on a soft waterstone, just like when using a strop, a trailing edge is essential.
The 60 grit dressing stone is a bit on the rough side, but you can use it on both the 1000 and the 3000 grit side. The will wear a tad quicker if you dress them with such a rough grit, but it will neither harm the stone or the knife that you are using on such a dressed surface. Try and use light pressure when dressing the waterstones to keep the scratch depth to a minimum. Alternatively, you can first dress the stone with the 60 grit and then finish the surface with a few passes on a 220 grit wet/dry sandpaper "glued" with water to a flat surface.
It is my firm belief that on a soft waterstone, you have to use trailing strokes. If you don't, you will gauge the stone, but more importantly, you will dull the edge. Gauging means that the edge bites straight into the abrasive and even if you don't gauge, just a tad too steep angle will actually shave abrasive, which is just as bad for the edge. On hard abrasives I usually use a leading edge stroke, but on a soft waterstone, just like when using a strop, a trailing edge is essential.
The 60 grit dressing stone is a bit on the rough side, but you can use it on both the 1000 and the 3000 grit side. The will wear a tad quicker if you dress them with such a rough grit, but it will neither harm the stone or the knife that you are using on such a dressed surface. Try and use light pressure when dressing the waterstones to keep the scratch depth to a minimum. Alternatively, you can first dress the stone with the 60 grit and then finish the surface with a few passes on a 220 grit wet/dry sandpaper "glued" with water to a flat surface.