3K - A story about a gift.

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So,

I have been schlepping around this internet thing, and Bladeforums, and the WSS forums for a time.

And, I realized, when Rick aka Mr Wilder posted that he had cracked a thousand posts, that I was nearing three thousand.

As I considered that fact, I was at a loss, as to what to do, I wanted to maybe do a giveaway, as I have a bunch of stuff that I will never use, in a big Rubbermaid tote. But, I wanted a theme. Then, the other day, I was rummaging through that old tote, and came across a couple pieces of gear that have been with me a long time..

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They don't get used anymore, the compass does'nt work.

But, I grabbed them, and brought them into the house.

And like the fetishes that they are, they started to work their magic....

You see, back some years ago, when I was in middle school, an older kid, just a few years out of high school, took me under his wing, so to speak.

This seems simple, but it wasn't, I was well on my way to being a real sh*thead. I was about as arrogant and full of myself as a kid could be. Like the proverbial pig in mud, I wallowed in it.

But, despite that, this guy, James, saw/felt/understood that I needed an older friend, and so he became that friend to me. He paid for it. I repeated things he had said in confidence, I ignored him when I should have been listening, and I failed to ask the questions about life that he could have answered. But, despite that, he stayed my friend.

And, his friendship was a real door to another world.

Because, he was a janitor at the Fairchild AFB Survival School. Fairchild is pretty big that way, they run survival schools for aircrew and pilots, and the Instructors School also operated out of Fairchild.

And James went through the trash, and started to glean all these things, knives, and compasses, which got him interested in Survival. And he shared that interest with me, and some of the loot.

Which is how I got that compass, and those knives.

And, now, I am at the cusp of making knives, and I remember that it was the outdoors, and those days with James, learning a knot or two and finding out how handy a knife could be that helped set me on this path.

The tragedy is that I cannot call James up, and thank him, or invite him to go camping or make him a knife. He died not too many years later, on his motorcycle. Not that it would have mattered, after about a year, as stupid children do, I had forgotten about him.

So, instead, I get to thank you all, it is my privilege to thank you for all the time that you spend here, and the great conversations we have about this subject and our love for it.

And, with that in mind, it becomes clear what my giveaway should be about.....

I have a bunch of stuff, and knives, and all that... And from my loot, my plunder, I am going to create a little survival kit.

I have a Cold Steel Canadian Belt Knife which is going to the anchor of this here kit, and I have a ferro rod, and I will put a bunch of stuff together and give it away.

But, to who?

Well, that will be the hard part, though I have a feeling it won't be too hard.

You tell me who should get it....

Maybe you know someone on the Forums who needs one?

Maybe there is a neighbour kid that needs one?

Maybe you need it?

I will wait about a week, and of the people that it should go to, if I need I will choose somebody at random.

And if you just have a story like this one here, feel free to tell it, it might get somebody thinking of the right person for the kit.

And if you have a bunch of gear, and nobody to give it to, feel free to piggy back off of this thread, and maybe we can give a couple kits away.

My only request is that you figure out a way to get some pictures or something of the recipient.

Anway, that's part of my story, and all I'm gonna tell tonight,
Marion
 
MDP, as long as I've known you here, you've paid James back, by sharing knowledge on all sorts of subjects with us.
 
Great story. Thanks for sharing. The stuff pales in comparison to the feelings you projected through your words, which serve to remind us what is truly important.
 
Thanks for sharing that story. It made my day. I have 20+ of my students coming to my house tonight for pizza (finals start next week), and your story reminded me of how valuable modeling and mentoring can be. Good luck on finding someone who needs the kit, and blessings on you.

When I was a kid, junior high age, my Dad was too busy (small town pastor) and not super inclined toward the outdoors to take me out much. But the 'old guy' next door -- I thought of him as in his 70s, but he was probably in his 50s -- used to let me tag along when he'd check his traplines or varmit hunt fox and coyotes. 30+ years later they remain some of my fondest memories and probably are part of the reason that the outdoors still has a special magic for me.
 
What do I have to do to find someone to give this to?

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Hey 'Ol Bud I'm past my 1000 post, closer to 1500, I really didn't know what to do either so for my 1000+ post give away I'll throw in a small FieldLine RealTree (I think thats the pattern) Fanny pack, it should hold all that Equipment you got there nicely :thumbup: Send me your Address & I'll ship it to you next week so you can put the kit togather ;)
 
Thanks for sharing your story. It is appreciated, more than I can express in words.
 
I have an idea.

There was a guy on here a while back who had lost his leg in a MVA and lots of people sent him knives but I don't recall him getting anything else. I think this kit would be a perfect next step for him. It'll give him something to do in the woods other than sit on a log and whittle.

David
 
Maybe one of the guys here who leads boy scouts could use it...

Your story was great, and you gift very generous. That is why I love WS&S!
 
A friend of mine is living across the continent from me. I’ve been a minor participant with her in bringing up her two daughters. When the girls became teenagers I started talking to them about emergency preparedness. Working only by telephone and emails, it was a hard sell. It took me years to convince them to practice fire starting. A tedious number of recent birthday and Christmas presents to them have been things like the Victorinox Farmer or the Sola Tec Aero Vest. The elder starts college this fall. I’ve convinced her to pack a bug out bag just in case. “The dorm is on fire! Get out now!” Extra clothing, ID, cash, an emergency kit, etc. I emailed her an annotated list of things it would be good to have.

If you really want to give that kit to someone who could use all the help she can get, send it to this girl.

In any case, thanks for your generosity.
 
This is why this forum is the best there is. The knowledge, the cool knife and gear pics, the excellent outdoor pics, and the comraderie and generosity of the members :thumbup:
 
First off i would like to say that was a great story and it got me thinking alot. I am 1 year out of highschool and ive had alot of friends move away to college. It has just been easier to not talk to them, not because i dont want too its just easier not too i guess. But if something were to happen to them it would hard to accept the fact that i choose not too keep in touch. Your story has made me realize that i need to make some phone calls.

Now about your generous offer to give away a survival kit too someone who needs one. I have someone in mind that could use one in there car very very much. That person is my mom. My mom has tought me to always be prepared epsecially when i go on my hunting trips. She has put together a survival kit to keep in my toolbox at all times. She doesnt listen to her own advice though because she doesnt have one in hers. I would not worry about her if she worked inside of town but she doesnt. My mom is a Hospice Nurse in rural Northern California. She has to go see patients at all times in the night and has to drive down a long dirt road into the timber in most cases. If you were to pick my story i would put this kit in my moms car so i would have more peace of mind when she leaves the house in the middle of the night.

Thank you for your story and thank you for making me realize whats important.

Mike
 
First off i would like to say that was a great story and it got me thinking alot. I am 1 year out of highschool and ive had alot of friends move away to college. It has just been easier to not talk to them, not because i dont want too its just easier not too i guess. But if something were to happen to them it would hard to accept the fact that i choose not too keep in touch. Your story has made me realize that i need to make some phone calls.

Now about your generous offer to give away a survival kit too someone who needs one. I have someone in mind that could use one in there car very very much. That person is my mom. My mom has tought me to always be prepared epsecially when i go on my hunting trips. She has put together a survival kit to keep in my toolbox at all times. She doesnt listen to her own advice though because she doesnt have one in hers. I would not worry about her if she worked inside of town but she doesnt. My mom is a Hospice Nurse in rural Northern California. She has to go see patients at all times in the night and has to drive down a long dirt road into the timber in most cases. If you were to pick my story i would put this kit in my moms car so i would have more peace of mind when she leaves the house in the middle of the night.

Thank you for your story and thank you for making me realize whats important.

Mike
Anyone that is a Hospice Nurse is an angel from heaven. She gets my vote!
 
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