Congrats on 50!!!! Wow, truly amazing. I think your logic to a good long marriage is sound. Thanks for the outstanding GAW!
I'm in!!
I have been married for 20 years. My secret really isn't that much of secret. It is pretty simple. We are a Team and so, we share control of our fates. When she wants/needs to be the boss, I let her, and vice versa. We have grown to recognize each others strengths and weaknesses, and when its prudent one takes charge and makes the decisions. That's how we have survived so long when most of our friends and family members have been mired in personal conflict and troubles which more often than not, produce bad relationships and usually end in divorce.