When I started posting on BladeForums about 10 years ago, this forum was more like it is lately...pleasant...pastoral..not much controversy, except when (Cliff) He Who Shall Not Be Named(Stamp) came charging in like a myopic rhino....and then I started posting the truth as seen through my eyes....and it swirled around a BUNCH of stuff....and changed some of the direction and tone of this forum, some for good, some for bad.
I thought then, and still think that we should discuss the design, the knives, AND the people involved. Sometimes, a maker has far to go before they "get there" and this is fine as long as the price matches the work AND the aftermarket value...and that can be discussed to death, but the discussion is still important...because there are many very valid and differing views on it.
Sometimes, the maker is a thief, a liar or a conman, and that deserves to be discussed here too. I have always thought that if people have the information, they should share it, for the betterment of all, and put individual considerations aside.
My posts back then were a lot more witty and sarcastic, a lot nastier and they hurt people's feelings....and sometimes business. As the decade passed, and a great many shows attended, some makers teared up in front of me, or just plain related how hurt they were that I would make sport of them or their knife, they had their heart and soul wrapped up in it, you see.
The feelings of the makers was never considered in the choice of words....and that is a great fault of character that pops up sometimes to this day. If a decent man is making what Ed Fowler calls an "honest knife", it isn't very sporting of me to not consider his feelings in that knife. If I comment at all any more, I try to be very specific about the issues I identify as a problem, and leave out some of the "witty" commentary. While it may not be as amusing(it isn't

), it is also a lot more fun to go to shows and sit with a maker or collector and chat, rather than feel eyes burning holes in the back of my head, and a lot more balanced for everyone concerned if I take my "gritty" observations face to face.
For a lot of makers, this is a serious, full time business....sometimes it doesn't get treated like that.
For a lot of us collectors, it might as well be a business, the time that we spend at it....be honest with yourself, Bob, Martin, Peter, Roger, Kevin most of you professionals who have been at this a while......the numbers are big.
I'm trying to get to a place on BladeForums where I can speak like I do to my customers....not lying, not pulling the punches, but ALWAYS being respectful, courteous and professional.....I'll save the mockery and shenanigans for the phone calls and hanging out in the hotel room.
Saw the Dalai Lama speak a few weeks ago, and he said that "without respect, there is no trust, and without trust, we cannot cooperate and make the world a better place".
That concept resonated with the entire room of roughly 5,000 people, and the applause was thunderous. The words are very true and apply to the microcosm of BladeForums as well as the whole world. If we approach the discussion of the design, the knives and the people with respect, we may be able to reach the next generation and have our words and experiences heard and shared.
Best Regards,
STeven Garsson