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I went through that this past spring and summer with my Dad. He’s in a nursing home now and doing great but it was exhausting to be sure. Trust me, taking a little break and getting outside will help clear your head tremendously. Hope everything gets resolved soon.The company I work for has been closed all week. I was hoping to have all sorts of outdoor adventures, and post about them here, but it didn’t work out.
WARNING!!! Rambling off-topic content begins here.
My wife and I have been working hard the past couple of years to keep my parents (both 84 and failing) in their own home, but we have known for a while that we were just one incident away from all that falling apart. That incident happened this week.
Sometime Monday night or Tuesday morning early, my dad fell over in the bedroom upstairs, and the lady who helps them during the day found him just lying there. He wasn’t hurt, but the reason for his weakness was pneumonia. The paramedics had to come and get him down the narrow staircase and into an ambulance.
My mother has dementia, and frets horribly if my father isn’t in her sight at all times. We tried to care for her in our home for a couple of days, but we didn’t really sleep at all - it was clear we needed professional help.
Thankfully we had already been dealing with an agency that helps find nursing and assisted living care, so I called them, and they found a really nice residential care facility and my mother is safely there now.
Dad gets discharged to a rehab center tomorrow, and then I have a couple of weeks to find a permanent arrangement for both of them together. So far everything has played out much better than I always imagined this sad but inevitable event would - I’m hoping that trend continues.
Anyway, now I’m sick with something my exhausted self must have picked up at the hospital or somewhere. If I survive tomorrow, I may have Sunday or Monday morning to get out to the canal for a walk and some outdoor therapy, before it’s back to work Tuesday.
Thanks for listening.