That whole "feeling when right and when it isn't" is something that always gets me with any hand/eye coordination task. Whether I'm shooting trap, or 3gun, or skiing, or playing tennis, casting a fishing line, shooting a bow, grinding...
Often I can feel when something isn't just right. The hardest part is identifying what it is and correcting it or working through it. That's muscle memory, or subconscious execution to put it more accurately. That's where repetitions pay off. You might grind one blade perfect, exactly how you visualized it, and then the next one goes wonky. So you have to correct some mistakes. Were you paying enough attention to realize you made the mistakes before you caught them in visual inspection? Can you think back through the movement you made that caused the mistake and prevent it the next time?
The "talent" as I see it is that some people are very capable of doing the above without a lot of active thought. They're kinesthetic learners. To others it comes less naturally and takes more active concentration, but it isn't impossible.
The real frustration for me comes from the variables that affect the grind outside of my own movements. Was the stock flat and parallel before I started? Is it still flat and parallel? If the belt was new and cutting freely a minute ago, is it still cutting as freely now? Is the belt tension even across both left and right edges or is it tighter on one than the other?
Am I compensating for one of these things with my movements to get an acceptable grind?
Everyone who wants to improve their abilities to do these kinds of things should shoot trap sometime. Unlike a rifle or handgun, you're not trying to line up the sights and press the trigger at the moment they're on your target (think of this like executing a milled cut. Line up the readouts and cut.) but you shoulder the gun and line up your beads and say pull, and when the bird comes into your vision you focus both eyes on the bird and the gun follows your line of vision, you slap the trigger when you anticipate you're in the correct position and follow through.
It's so much like grinding it's not even funny. There's no time to line up your sights and press, because the target is getting further and further away distally and radially, just like there's no time to line things up freehand on the grinder, when you're on the belt you're cutting, no matter how light the pressure.
Good repetitions make good subconscious executions possible. Trial and error identifies variables for elimination. Elimination of variables make for good repetitions. The circle of grinding
