ok let me get this straight, you jumped the gun posting here. he read it, you got the $$, he refused your package 'cuz he read this post??
if you have gotten the $$ from the guy you owe him a BIG apology, you do know that this is a kinda last resort to use after communication and such has broken down and ya have waited an appropriate amount of time to get the $$.
like i said you owe a BIG apology, not cool at all imho.
i woulda refused the package also, i presume you have sent his $$ back, right?