Mate, if youre reloading 3 times you're on a movie set, or part of a special forces raid. In realistic terms, what a wheel gun gets you is eliminating failures resulting from faulty ammunition, which is the most likely cause of gun malfunctions in the modern day. If your automatic jams or fails to cycle, you have to manually clear the malfunction & chamber a new round. You might shoot 10k without problems, but Murphy's law is a thing after all. With a revolver, you just pull the trigger again until it goes boom. A DA Revolver is also intrinsically safe, as the gun remains uncocked until you pull the trigger. When the time you have to use it comes, you wont care about the heavier trigger pull.
Just my view on things, if you prefer striker fired pistols, its your prerogative.