It's amazing how visual people are. We base probably more than 90% of our first impressions on the looks of a person. I for one have never understood the oh so sought after bubbly blond with blue eyes, boobs up to her chin, and an IQ you have to check with a tire gauge. I would like to say that I didn't seek out a woman like that because I respect the intellect and heart of a woman. That is true, but the main reason I can't stand "sex zombies" is because I'm a lazy bastid. I don't want to spend the rest of my life dragging a person along using a baby spoon to feed them small words so that we can communicate on some goo-goo gah-gah level.
My wife and I laugh at how "dumb" she is all the time. She's not dumb. Quite the opposite. She was a 4.0 student from Jr. High all the way through Grad school. Impressive. However she is a total, 100%, undeniable goof. We, at first glance, seemed like a bit of an odd couple in highschool. The bookish geeky girl going out with the "unstable" jock. Nothing is further from the truth. I'm a bigger geek than most geeks. The only difference is that I have good genes and am athletic by nature. She's got a sense of humor that is out of this world. She laughs every day (several times a day) at herself. No sex zombie could make me happier. I can't stand idiots. My patience for people is my worst vice. If i was looking for a sex zombie, then i'd just pay for a lady of the evening. Even if she was expensive I'd be money ahead in the long run, and I wouldn't have pull my hair out as I would if I had to come up with a smaller word for "conversation" for my sex zombie wife.
Jake