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What is fair to both the buyer and seller?
I have been irritating a few people on BladeForums lately, with some comments about what I think constitutes fair or unfair business practices between buyers and sellers of custom knives on the Internet. Let me be very clear, what happens behind firewalls between consenting adult buyers and sellers is their business. Caveat emptor et vendor! BUT I have both bought and sold a fair number of custom knives on the Internet, in order to build my collection. FWIW, rightly or wrongly, I believe that I have a pretty good handle on the issue from BOTH perspectives.
This is MY opinion, continue reading at your own peril!
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The buyer is the person who actually makes the deal happen with his desire and cash. (Salesmen will disagree)
As the buyer, I consider it my responsibility to know what it is that I am buying, and if the knife meets my criteria (type, size, style, maker, etc.). If I have questions about the knife, I should politely ask them and consider the seller's or maker's answers BEFORE the transaction takes place, NOT after the fact. It is my job to check out the seller's reputation and decide if he is trustworthy. If I don't know the sellers terms and conditions, or am unsure, I SHOULD ASK HIM, so that we are both on the same page. (Hey, you may actually enjoy getting slammed with restocking fees, expenses, and none of your cash back, but that is your choice)
Insurance on the outbound shipment? Do I want it? Is it included? Am I willing to pay for it?
I am buying a unique hand made product. It is IMPOSSIBLE to fully determine the fit, finish, and condition of a knife from images on the Internet. Even ABS Mastersmiths can and do occasionally make mistakes. There maybe a problem with the knife, that the seller or maker, in complete good faith, did not see. It is rare, but it can happen. I must have the right to inspect the knife for a reasonable period, and to return it (at MY expense including insurance) for cash refund or charge back to my credit card. If the buyer has used PayPal, the seller only has an obligation to return the net dollar amount that he actually received from PayPal. One further comment about about PayPal refunds: if the seller uses the "refund" button on PayPal instead of sending the buyer the refund in a new transaction, the seller only gives back the net amount received, but the buyer gets back the full amount paid. When the refund function is used, PayPal actually returns the PayPal fees back to the buyer, so nobody loses anything.
That of course brings up the two magic questions for BOTH buyers and sellers,
"What exactly is a deal killing probem?"
There is ONLY ONE deal killing problem, that BOTH the buyer and seller should both embrace! THE BUYER IS NOT HAPPY!
This completely eliminates nit-picking and he said, she said situations. It enhances the seller's reputation and also may earn the seller a future buyer.
"What exactly is a reasonable period of time?"
IF I am the seller, within three business days after the knife is delivered is a reasonable inspection period. Twenty minutes should be enough, but that is not realistic. After three business days it is YOUR knife.
IF I am the buyer, I should inform the seller as soon as I have decided that I am EITHER HAPPY or UNHAPPY. After three business days it is MY knife.
As the seller, I have an obligation to fairly represent the knife and its condition, with pictures and words, and answer all the buyer's questions to the best of my ability. It my responsbility to properly pack and ship the knife in timely fashion. And to confirm the date of its delivery with proof of signature. I request US Postal money orders for payment, because they maybe cashed at the same time that the knife goes into the US Mail. There are no bounced checks and no question about the availability of the funds. It also provides some additional protection to the buyer and the seller. As a matter of courtesy, I will let the buyer know when his money order arrives, and when I put the knife into the Mail.
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I reserve the right to revise and extend my remarks.
I have been irritating a few people on BladeForums lately, with some comments about what I think constitutes fair or unfair business practices between buyers and sellers of custom knives on the Internet. Let me be very clear, what happens behind firewalls between consenting adult buyers and sellers is their business. Caveat emptor et vendor! BUT I have both bought and sold a fair number of custom knives on the Internet, in order to build my collection. FWIW, rightly or wrongly, I believe that I have a pretty good handle on the issue from BOTH perspectives.
This is MY opinion, continue reading at your own peril!
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The buyer is the person who actually makes the deal happen with his desire and cash. (Salesmen will disagree)
As the buyer, I consider it my responsibility to know what it is that I am buying, and if the knife meets my criteria (type, size, style, maker, etc.). If I have questions about the knife, I should politely ask them and consider the seller's or maker's answers BEFORE the transaction takes place, NOT after the fact. It is my job to check out the seller's reputation and decide if he is trustworthy. If I don't know the sellers terms and conditions, or am unsure, I SHOULD ASK HIM, so that we are both on the same page. (Hey, you may actually enjoy getting slammed with restocking fees, expenses, and none of your cash back, but that is your choice)
I am buying a unique hand made product. It is IMPOSSIBLE to fully determine the fit, finish, and condition of a knife from images on the Internet. Even ABS Mastersmiths can and do occasionally make mistakes. There maybe a problem with the knife, that the seller or maker, in complete good faith, did not see. It is rare, but it can happen. I must have the right to inspect the knife for a reasonable period, and to return it (at MY expense including insurance) for cash refund or charge back to my credit card. If the buyer has used PayPal, the seller only has an obligation to return the net dollar amount that he actually received from PayPal. One further comment about about PayPal refunds: if the seller uses the "refund" button on PayPal instead of sending the buyer the refund in a new transaction, the seller only gives back the net amount received, but the buyer gets back the full amount paid. When the refund function is used, PayPal actually returns the PayPal fees back to the buyer, so nobody loses anything.
That of course brings up the two magic questions for BOTH buyers and sellers,
"What exactly is a deal killing probem?"
There is ONLY ONE deal killing problem, that BOTH the buyer and seller should both embrace! THE BUYER IS NOT HAPPY!
This completely eliminates nit-picking and he said, she said situations. It enhances the seller's reputation and also may earn the seller a future buyer.
"What exactly is a reasonable period of time?"
IF I am the seller, within three business days after the knife is delivered is a reasonable inspection period. Twenty minutes should be enough, but that is not realistic. After three business days it is YOUR knife.
IF I am the buyer, I should inform the seller as soon as I have decided that I am EITHER HAPPY or UNHAPPY. After three business days it is MY knife.
As the seller, I have an obligation to fairly represent the knife and its condition, with pictures and words, and answer all the buyer's questions to the best of my ability. It my responsbility to properly pack and ship the knife in timely fashion. And to confirm the date of its delivery with proof of signature. I request US Postal money orders for payment, because they maybe cashed at the same time that the knife goes into the US Mail. There are no bounced checks and no question about the availability of the funds. It also provides some additional protection to the buyer and the seller. As a matter of courtesy, I will let the buyer know when his money order arrives, and when I put the knife into the Mail.
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I reserve the right to revise and extend my remarks.