Eric_425,
Come on down Eric, down off your self righteous, idealistic pedestal for a moment. My friends are way different than some stranger or person at work. Most of my friends carry their own knives and multi-tools the rest of my friends I trust with mine. When it comes to people other than close personal friends I have a different opinion.
Fact is, I don't want that same person asking me for a favor hurting themself, then getting me into trouble/fired/lawsuit. When you grow up, get married, have a family, own a home ..... things you have worked hard for, you will have more to lose. When you get to that stage in your life, it isn't just about you anymore, I have to consider my family as well.
This doesn't mean I don't stop to help change flat tires for strangers, or let them use my cell phone if they need to make a call, or hold the door open for people. It doesn't even mean I won't cut what needs cutting if they ask. But if I don't know you that well, or we are just an acquaintance all bets are off when it comes to loaning you sharp pointy implements.
And no, I don't feel it's a lonely existence or that I'm being harsh.
So Eric_425, come down son.