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sorry to hear that man...
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I lost my father to bone cancer quite a few years ago now but I never fail to find stories or quotations from his life to bring up in conversation with never a tear in my eye. One of my favourites he always used was, "Like picking fly shit out of pepper with boxing gloves on," which he used to describe a particularly difficult task. He also used to say, "You can make a shithouse look like the Taj Mahal if you shoot it from the right angle," explaining why some people look great in pictures but like ass when you see them in person.
It takes time but you will find that you are eventually able to tell stories of the joy that came from his life while actually feeling that joy, and not the sorrow. Death is only the last thing we do. Everything else matters more. My condolences to you and yours; I know you're hurting now.