Yup, other people already told yeah, but you need that lockbar relief cutout in order to have a functioning framelock. Most liner locks have it as well, however obviously they are not as pronounced.
However to your other point on worrying about them loosening over time, It won't happen my friend. I've been watching the knife community for a decade and a half and can't remember a single time where I saw someone post a picture of their framelock overextended because they opened the lockbar too fast or used too much strength. I think I've seen one or two pics of it, however I think those were a case of someone adjusting the lockbar and they bent it out too far. You could do it if you were really motivated and set out to do just that, however in order to bend the lockbar enough to have it set, you really need to dissassemble the knife and have the opposite side liner/frame/scale off.
And in 95% (random number, but close to what I've seen) of the time, a lockbar will never wear all the way across the blade tang (lock) and reach the other scale which would mean the lock no longer has any travel left and vertical bladeplay (lock rock) will now happen. You will see it happen on super cheap gas station type knives, however it's exceedingly rare on quality knives. I used to have the same worry when I first got serious into knives, however over the years I noticed that once the frame lock/liner lock "sets" into place from opening it it's first 50 or so times, it really doesn't move over any further than that. There will always be the rare exception, however it's very rare.
Lockbar stabilizers are cool, I like them too, however with how good the manufacturing is now days, I treat them as more of just a cool doo dad to have on the knife for aesthetics.