RE: "Eh, not quite. In your example, 5 pounds does not become 20 pounds (unless you are very angry perhaps). "
I am not referring to the weight being increased due to frustration (that would be additional and also multiplied by 4x in example), I am referring to the increase due to decreased contact patch stone to steel.
RE: your 1st paragraph appears to generally agree with what I wrote above (4x increase due to decreased contact stone to steel). Please let me know if my math is askew in any way that affects the results (below illustration).
Example: 1" wide stone (common guided system dimension)
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The entirety of my comments relate to
excessive pressure in the reduced contact patch of stone/steel being the cause of excessive wear, especially on stones referenced by many above like DMT Diamond plates, being the reason some experience this excessive wear while others do not (Jason B. & myself for example). My comment above "... forgetting about how applied pressure on the stone is distributed across an area of contact" aka exerting excessive stone to steel pressure, unknowingly.
There is a situation comparison that I would also bring into the conversation that might be a factor.
Typically when I am removing this small amount of steel from the heel of an edge, I am at a point where I have decided to keep the knife and, I am also reprofiling the bevels (so, a fair amount of work being done with a re-profiling stone including work in the belly were the reverse type of stone wear is occurring - as I referenced in previous post). My guess also common situ from Jason B. perspective (where the majority of the work being done is NOT just the removal of this small triangle).
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Others, may only be matching the factory bevels (so very little stone work main blade bevels & belly, compared to a re-profile of secondary bevels), were the amount of work using only edge of stone is a greater percentage of overall work being done with stone.
Additionally, this is really only related to the most coarse stone in a progression as that is the only stone really cutting excessive amounts of steel (and that little triangle near the heal is pretty small).