I had a great deal of influence with him before he was 10. He's 16 now and I don't even try to influence him about anything. My wife doesn't want the poor boy to cut himself cutting a roll in half, and that's only the beginning of the pandering. I only get in trouble when I voice my issues. So, I don't bother anymore. He knows where I'm at and is at our house about 4 nights a week on average. I just hope he makes enough money when he gets older to pay other people to do everything for him because unless he changes, that will be his only option.