I am eyeing down the magnum research baby eagle .40 full size in steel
I cannot recommend this. At all. It was my first hand gun, but in 9mm. I'm not even going to explain how crappy it was. Just sift through my 10+ page thread in another forum recounting all of the failures it had.
http://www.941forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=482 <---and if you can't be bothered doing the research, the entire thread is sort of a journal with each range session with the 941. The first post may only indicate 950 rounds, but by the time you get to the end, it will be in the thousands. I don't recall exactly how many rounds I put through it, but over 8000 in less than a year and a half, which is more than many people put through a gun in their entire life time, excluding the few of us that shoot competition.
If you want a CZ based gun, get the real deal. I was so off put by the 941 that it took years before I got enough courage to try another CZ based firearm. A few months ago, I decided to give it another go, but with an actual CZ this time. Night and day difference in terms of reliability. If it's the looks thing that got you on the 941, the CZ SP-01 looks almost identical. If you want an even closer match, check out the CZ Phantom. It looks the most like a 941, but it's polymer framed.
I don't know of any folks that haven't had issues on 941s, maybe not as numerous or frequent as I did, but definitely enough to scratch off the gun on the list of "reliable". 2% failure rate is not acceptable to me, not even for a home defense gun.
What can I recommend?
CZ75/SP-01/Shadow/Accu-shadow (I have an Accu-shadow)
M&P (bro shoots an M&P9 Pro)
HKs (I used to shoot an HK45)
Glocks (hate them, but super reliable. Shot my friend's plenty)
Sigs (shot my same friend's Sig 220 a lot) EDIT 3: Sigs prior to the QC fiasco is what I should have said.
XDs and PPQs (least amount of experience with these having only shot a few rounds through them. PPQ prob has the best feeling trigger out of any polymer framed gun)
Only 1911 I shot was a Wilson Combat CQB Elite, so I won't comment on other 1911s that cost hundreds/thousands less.
EDIT: Forgot to mention Browning Hi-powers. I love mine, but the grip actually feels a bit boxy compared to my CZ. My CZ also holds a lot more in the magazine. The single action on a Hi-power is heavy, but smooth out of the box. The trigger pull distance is about as close as you'll get to a mouse click if that's your thing. Its weight is deceptively light considering it's a full framed steel firearm.
EDIT 2: Did you seriously consider a .44 magnum Desert Eagle as your first hand gun? I've seen bigger people than you having trouble handling the recoil on that gun. Also, .44 mag is not exactly cheap to shoot unless you reload your own ammo. I also never see any at Wally World. Not to bruise your ego, but you should prob start somewhere that's not .44 magnum. Even the .40 s&w is a bit for many people. Can they be handled? Absolutely. Anything can be mastered. First gun choice? I'd go with a soft shooting .45 over a .40 if you want to start big on a first hand gun. If you can be convinced otherwise, I'd look at 9mm as a first. Contrary to all the nonsense you'll hear or have already heard, modern day pistol rounds tend to be pretty much equal in effectiveness (or ineffectiveness depending on which school of thought you subscribe to).
So really, the question is why start on a caliber that will at best, slow down your follow up shots, and at worst make you hate shooting that caliber? Unless you just happen to like recoil, which is understandable if that's the case. Tons of people do. I suppose it's the adrenaline rush you get. I like it, but I tend to like more practical things for firearms. I also reload, so I'm not limited by selection.