I had already put this out of mind, but perhaps an addendum of sorts is in order. So there is no misunderstanding, I have no doubt that at some point the item I paid for would have showed up.
However, the auction ended on 10/26/05 and it never shipped as of 11/3/05.
According to Flames they somehow never recieved my 2 requests for a refund, so there was no reason not to ship the item, and yet it never shipped. It has never arrived on this end, and it never will.
I first raised the question of a refund if the item was in fact on back order, and never got an answer. My second request for a refund was very specific after not getting any answer at all about the status, and again, this request was also somehow not recieved.
I have a very well honed sense of when someone is making an honest mistake and when someone is shining me on, and is why I posted here in GB&U, despite my strong reluctance to do so.
As I said, I won't ever do business with Flames for any reason at all, as I cannot abide selectively poor communication.