This doesn't make sense

Is there some special 2x2 driving technique that I am not aware of. I have driven 4x4s all my life and there is no way in hell a 2 wheel drive is going to keep up, I don't care if Colin McRae is behind the wheel. Chris
There is , and isnt ...
I had a nissan homer truck ( 1.8 litre 4cyl 2x4 , bogs on sight of sand ) I fitted way way oversized tyres to it , and could not bog it after , even when attempting to recover a really really stuck landcruiser and we burried the back down till the diff hit the sand and the tryes were spinnig in space .. we shoved the sand out from under the diff and drove out of the hole no worries , had another go and eventually got the 'cruiser out
that truck was "modified" for sand tho because that is what we had to deal with for literaly hundred of kms around us , the only time we needed 4x4 in a vehicle was for sand pretty much ....
here now , its rocky country with mud , slick slick mud and sometimes snow, my 4x4 is broken , so I have fitted mud tyres to the car on the rear and truck tyres with the deepest widest grooves I could to the front , working on a tractor set up principle , heaps of grip at back , plenty of steerability at front , and itll be OK
so far so good , we do keep up with 4x4 folk as far as they go , we go further often , even when the others go back because tit torough , too steep or too muddy ( 4x4 club outings are a crack up , their 2way chatter is enough to kill a man laughing
"Can you guys help , Im stuck in the creek "
"did you put 4 wheel in ? "
"yeah "
"Did you lock your hubs in ?"
"oh , hang on ..")
but it should be noted that its ot only city folk who want to justify their 4x4 ownership that we meet , its also farmers , who are among the hardest user of their vehicles in the roughest terrains , and prospectors , again the same kind of folk .
these guys know that mud tyres and a set of snow chains , maybe two sets if steering is a priority , will get a ordinary car thru most wet snow and mud obstacles , and oversized , offroad tyres are not only for 4x4 vehicles , but also do damm good service on a 2x4 vehicle .
I do have a couple sets of snow chains in case but so far just the deep offroad tread has been more than enough to get us us thru , we have been places that 2x4s are not supposed to go , just because we can , and like to go there . Horses for courses , I have been getting bomby old farm cars into and out of places that folk wouldnt dream they could go , now I have some cash and a good car ( old ugly but mechanically reliable ) I am doing the same in a street car .
so I guess the answer to your question is , yes there is a way of driving a 2x4 , kinda like one drives a beach buggy , but also , not the kinda 2x4 s it rolls off the showroom floor tho , better tyres are a must ... tyres designed for bitumen roads are good for bitumen roads , tyres designed for offroad are good for offroad , and as a very general rule , the more tyre the better .
but no , a 2x4 will not usually keep up with a specially modified offroad vehicle over the exact same track , give some leeway and allowance to negotiate one suited to the vehicle tho , and yeah , both will usually arrive at the same destination ..
FWIW , my toyota 2x4 negiotiates a local 4x4 clubs medium hard 4x4 training circut no worries ... aside from a fewbelly scraps ,
have traction , will travel !