Originally posted by Jazzman
Where to begin
Skinwalker- I don't think Ira was "threatening" anyone. He was merely bringing up the point that you NEVER know what the other guy is carrying. Ira knows what he is talking about, sit and learn.
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I didnt really think he was threatening him, my apologies for saying so. I get that way myself and post things that contain a bit too much emotion. Even though there was a good point being made, I think the point is being made in a more productive manner by the continuing posts on this thread. I think Smiley_dave_ is sincere in his question and that is something deserving of respect, even if other people can be frustratingly stupid like saying "just frikkin stab em". This guy came in here asking a question as a man, he should be treated as a man, Ira was acting like me when I was 16. I got a feeling Ira has a lot of real world experience that would add quite a bit to this conversation, I just thought it was ironic that someone was being scolded for immaturity in such an immature manner.
Heck, my own statements bother me in the fact that I feel like a ex-smoker hassling someone with a cigarette. Couple years ago my response woulda been something like "Pull a knife on me and watch me turn you in to a sack of splintered bones". Hippocritical and preachy to some extent but I believe it so I say it. You guys prob do the same.
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I think it is a great subject for all of us to discuss. So many of us pack steel in the name of self defense and utility it is good that we have the repect for violence that we have. So we carry these things and we are charged with the responsability of the consiquenses of using them. There are those that go around with thier knives that frighten, hurt, and kill people without a care or worry. We are not those people and I think thats why Smiley asked his question here instead of some thug who cuts up people who owe him drug money. There is a lot of good advice I think. The most important point is that it is not something you want to do, it is something you avoid, something that is a very last resort. If you think it is cowardly to avoid confrontation you can always think of it as you sparing your attacker the savage injuries he would recieve from your defense.
Also important is that good old Machevellian addage "Pray not for war but always be prepared for it". Training and reasearch is a good idea even if you arnt gonna carry a knife. So I dont like guns; didnt stop me from learning how to field strip various models and practice at the range with my gun-nut buddy. So I hate getting into fights; that hasnt slowed down my rigorous martial arts training.
For this situation there is wisdom, knowlege and skill..... none of em come easy...none of em are instantaneous...and you can always use more. Personnaly I have just begun
Ira, I would like peace with you. I was just goin to bat in defense of Smiley_dave_ and it prob wasnt my place