The real key in freehand sharpening is developing (by practice) the feel for when the apex just begins to make contact on the stone's surface; it'll bite into the grit, and you'll feel the change in friction on the stone when it does. When the angle is too low, you'll also be able to feel the shoulders of the bevels kind of 'skimming' (noisily, roughly) over the grit. When the angle becomes flush to the bevels, it's gets quieter and slicker. Then, when the angle starts to rise just enough to make the apex 'bite' into the stone, there's a different sensation altogether. It'll feel more aggressive, and you can tell the stone is really removing steel at the edge. As you develop the feel via your fingertips, you'll begin to feel the transition from that noisy, rough 'skittering' (as I call it) of the shoulders over the grit, to the slicker & quieter 'skating' effect felt when flush to the bevels, and then to the aggressive 'bite' of the apex into the stone. When you get better at detecting that 3-part transition, you train your hands to ease up on pressure just as you're transitioning into that 'biting' sensation as the cheeks of the apex begin to dig. Easing up in pressure at that precise moment is how the bad effects of any 'bad drag' can be minimized and/or eliminated (eventually).