Good Evening All-
TheTourist, yes I agree with you 100% that you can certainly find good and bad people within
any group. Many H-D riders ultimately have good intentions, most notably the folks who participate in the
Toys For Tots runs,
Benefits for Burn Victims, and
United Way fundraisers. The primarily H-D groups I've encountered seem to have trouble seeing the forest because of all the trees that are in the way...
I'm in my mid-thirties and have attended about seven benefit rides over the years. Wouldn't you know that at
each and every event attended I've been "snubbed" because I've rolled-up on a bike with four cylinders and fairings? People on sportbikes represent a tiny minority at these events...so I've made it a point to walk around, smile, and compliment especially nice bikes. You wouldn't believe how many times I've met with stone silence or the cliques closed rank and simply turned their backs to me. It is especially charming when they stage-whisper about my "riceburner POS" when my $25.00 entrance fee is helping their same charity.
It isn't the basics, either...I'm well-groomed, normal, married, successful at work, and have fresh breath!

Maybe it is the full-face Arai RX7-RR helmet that draws such animosity?
Now, contrast that with the group of BMW riders with whom my old college roommate regularly rides. I've ridden several states away to hook-up with these guys and it is like joining old friends. We shake hands at the start of the ride and they treat me like we've been pals for years. We share laughs about riding, current events, families, whatever. When we stop for lunch, it's just a bunch of men and women out for a good time and some fellowship on a nice autumn day.
Yeah, there are a few braggers showing-off their newest Aerostich Roadcrafter or helmet-to-helmet communication system...but they are almost unfailingly pleasant people. As mentioned by TonyCCW, they are one
seriously dedicated bunch of motorcycle pilots, too. Some of these individuals have saddle time that just blows me away...of which I'm very envious. My odometer will never turn over like some of theirs.
Knife Outlet, I didn't mean to hijack your thread, but it seems to me that if one is going to invest serious money to choose a motorcycle to spend precious leisure time, one should reap the most benefit and enjoyment. It's not a slam against the machine (
the Dyna Wide Glide mentioned by Sniper308 is sah-weet!), but it doesn't seem worth the hassle to try and be part of the somewhat exclusionary club of H-D riders.
Just my humble opinion. Your experiences may differ...
~ Blue Jays ~