I suppose it's softer than the BM's but I definitely couldn't scratch it with my nail. It's essentially one layer of CF that's exposed on top of the G10 whereas the BM's is a cross section of CF that's 3D milled, so inherently the BM should hold up better cosmetically. Both are plenty strong functionally.
In the last pic of my post you can see that the grind on the spine is uneven. What should be a horizontal line slopes to the right. A significant percentage of 940-1's have this. Looks like your 940 is no different, too. I agree with your comments on centering. None of mine have centering issues. And the action on all are excellent. Axis lock alone is worth buying a BM if for no other reason. I just think most of the issues people talk about could be solved with a bit more skill behind the people grinding their blades these days. My 10 year old Benchmades' blade finishes are far superior to any of my modern ones. Benchmade makes great knives, and they charge more for them than many of their competitors, so I just think that their customers at least deserve the quality they're paying for.
Here's a pic of the factory edge on my 940-1 the day I took it out of the box. Absolutely horrible, inconsistent, wavy, and dull. Couldn't cut paper.