Brendan my friend, since this is your first I will tell you how I started. I grew up hunting and fishing. I stated with a rubber band gun, and then a bb gun and leanred as I grew.
My first pistol I bought was a S&W .41mag revolver 6" barrel model K frame in stainless. My dad had one previously and I like the lesser recoil than .44 with similar balistics out to 50yrds. I was 18 and really only wanted it for hunting, and a little fun etc.
My first semi came when I was 25 or so and I was no longer living in the country so I got this Sig .45 w/ night sights. I went with it due to knockdown power , reliablitly, cost/availabilty of shells, but mainly was the fit in my hand. It has a single stacked mag was thinner and less obtrusive than most high capacity double stacked mags and was easier to carry. THis is still a good arguement even today. IMHO
It served me well for almost 15 years. I no longer have the Sig, but I have a Kimber desert warrior which is much thinner and even easier to carry.
What gets the most roars and oohs, and ahhs from my friends that my wife enjoys shooting. The FN wins hands down. You can rip out twenty rounds, never miss a beat and shoot at ranges than you would normally never consider w/ a sidearm.
WHat will be the first real pistol my children will ever shoot? It will be this single action 22. I got this like a year or so ago used at a great price.
Its classic, timeless, flawless and I dont have to worry about them shooting themselves or anyone else after they get all excited after shooting it the first time and turn to say....
"Daddy, did you see that? Did you see me?" LOL
THis would be my suggestion for you.
I would get a single action with the 22 LR and Mag cylinders. You will never want to sell or get rid of it. It will be the one you can pass down forever.
Dont underestimate the single action my friend. A lot of men did
