I take a different approach to knives.
I don't seek out the perfect knife. I buy a good knife (like my GW), and I use it and use it and use it until I become accustom to its flaws and imperfections - which, as it turns out, are few.
I find that I'm more satisfied when I limit my options. There's something known as the "Paradox of Choice."
Check this out, if ya'll got time:
http://www.ted.com/talks/barry_schwartz_on_the_paradox_of_choice.html
I don't think you should be satisfied with a limited number of choices with known flaws where knives are concerned, especially if customs are within your price range. You should be capable of using a design that has features you don't like and be okay with it, those small issues shouldn't negatively impact your emotional, social or cognitive state, but you shouldn't necessarily settle for something with known
easy fixes.
IF INFI is an absolute requirement in your knife then, yes, you have to accept that you have limited choices and be happy with what you have, and then lobby Jerry to make the design that you want. But in this case the ESEE series and the Ratmandu have been presented as awesome, but with individual flaws. If you take the essence of a design and remove the perceived flaws you have a better product, a better experience, a greater sense of satisfaction. Any custom maker could make you an equivalent design that was stylistically unique apart from the ratmandu but with the same modified feature set, some of them in very high end tough steels.
I think there's a note worthy difference separating the paradox of choice and being an educated consumer. You can limit your choices through selective filtering and active participation in a way that leads to much better products that are suited to your needs without having to settle for less than ideal products. In the case of 'I want a phone that does less', you can learn how to modify the desk top of your phone to only show a dial icon. Just because there are 10,000 knife choices within the category of 5" fixed blade, a very small number of those are within the filter set - you don't have to concern yourself with those that are outside of the filter. I agree that you should use knives that have perceived flaws in them, but not to become okay with those flaws, rather to isolate the features you don't like so that you can isolate your filter set and limit the number of options further. Doing so
improves and limits the available options, instead of just limiting them.
This is all assuming you have the money to seek out high end consumer products. If not then I agree with you, you need to be able to be happy with what you have if you have no other options (or learn to make it yourself for very low cost)