Eric,as someone who suffered a spinal injury you have my empathy.This Aug 28 I'll have been in a wheelchair for32 years.T12 paraplegic.
The most important thing is to remember you can still have a fulfilling life if you don't recover which I hope you do.
My family sticking by me was the one thing that helped me get through, that along with fortitude.
Though I was injured in VA I spent time in Craig rehab hospital in Denver a nice facility,and I learned a lot.
You have my best wishes for a speedy recovery
GG